I choose to walk way.

I have known some people who find it easy to let go of things and forgive people easily. I personally have seen people who will not take you to heart regardless of what you did to them.

I got to know forgiveness is an act, it all depends on who you offend. It's so nice to let go of things, especially if they're not worth it. But some people find it very difficult to let go of things; regardless of what you do to them, they will not forgive you.

Some people have mastered the act of not forgiving at all; once you offend them, they will stop talking to you automatically. Some will even keep malice with you for years. I mean, how is it possible for you not to talk to someone for years, regardless? But come to think about it, some people are just not worth forgiving.

I will say that to forgive and forget will depend on what the person does to you, because as I said earlier, some offenses aren't worth taking to heart. For me, if you offend me, I would like to call your attention to it and tell you about it. Why do I do that? This is because I will not stop thinking about what happened, so to make things easier, I will just call the person and talk things out.

If I ever stop talking to someone, then the person has passed more than boundaries. Giving an example of what my colleague did for me in the workplace, she has always been on my neck, finding my troubles in one way or another; she's this kind of person that will listen to what A says and tell it to B, listen to C, and tell D another story entirely.

She has been putting everyone's head together in the office; last year she lied on me to our superior in the office. Meanwhile, the offense is not something small; it was so serious until they found out it's a lie. She does all these a lot. I tried to talk to her about what she's doing; everyone talks to her, but she won't listen. She did the same thing this year over and over again.

At some point I realized I needed to put her in her place. I will greet her, and she will not answer me; she goes beyond telling people not to greet me. At that point I just think leaving her alone will be the best thing I can do.

I'm honestly not angry, and I've forgiven her, but she isn't worth someone to talk to, so anytime we meet, I just look away. I stopped greeting her because she won't listen anyway or even answer my greetings, so what's the point of greeting?

How do I cope with her? Well, in the office everyone knows she's a virus, and honestly, the office will not be interesting if there's no virus; it's even better now. Before it was so critical.

Even if you think you are not the problem, some people are ready to create problems for you. I know I'm so quiet, but then they will taste your patience anywhere you meet yourself.

In summary, I have forgiven her, but it's better we don't talk anymore. Because what can a virus offer you if not destruction?

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