The Key to Disciplining a child Effectively
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In some ways, so many parents have their ways of disciplining their children and so many feel it best to discipline them the hard way for them to learn and some think a word is enough for them to learn and also some think by sending them to the military academy or to family relative for them to learn since they proving so stubborn yeah those are as far as I know which parents think it best to disciple a child.
But as for me the best way I think to discipline a child is from the infancy stage a child start growing up let say as the child came into this word yea my reason for saying this we as a parent the child learns from our every day attitude as a parent scientifically proven the day a child opens he or her eyes it start learning things and copying attitude or what he or she sees and programme it into the brain and the brain run command and notify the other part of the body to work on it you get my point.
Every step we take and act as a parent is important to the growth of a child and what the child will choose to believe when he or she comes of age, one thing I believe as a child is every thing we do or act upon is following what we believe and see our parent do so we believe what they do is righteous and we want to act upon it and be like them so it might not also be easy as a parent to control our action and daily life but it always lay a impact on a child what they should be disciplined on.
From what the child would learn so far if he or she would ever take a wrong steps they tend to recalled the ways of their parent and correct their ways where they are wrong and do the right thing instantly.
Also in respective when I mean our ways i simply saying what we speak as a parent to our child, how we act in public even in the house, religion, love and whenever we make mistakes as a parent how do we correct it when the child is watching those are those things that the child is watching and wanting to adapt to is not about sending the child outside to learn or beating the child to a pulp before learning and also even before getting married how do we leave our life as a single person and to the society, friends and family those things are needed to jot down the behavior or character will speak of you when you finally become a parent and have kid one day your kids might want to visit family or friends and sometimes outdoor experience also had to value of discipline going to visit for a short time.
In essence it the behaviour of a parent the child follows and decide on what is good or bad and which way should be followed I believe am able to make a point or two about disciplinary a child.
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You are right đź‘Ť
Thank you
If we expect that we can teach discipline to our kids just by telling them what’s wrong or right rather than showing that through our actions then probably we are committing a great mistake because this is not going to happen. We must teach them through our actions and that’s the best way
Exactly.
Most parents don't know that their child's behaviour is a mirror of what he/she have seen their parents doing or saying. Acting accordingly in front of a child is very essential to ensure he/she doesn't imitate the wrong behaviour.
The children follow the example of their parents, so I think that on that side they must give good models to follow. That is why you should think very well before taking the discourse of bringing a new life to this world, because there is a great responsibility in educating a new being, it is not only its future, but the future of the world, there are many things involved there. In addition, not everyone is prepared to be a father, it is a very extensive issue on which to talk.
In summary, the discipline is good if it is accompanied by empathy and education. I see it.
Yeah true thdnks fir sharing your thoughts
You are quite correct when you say that a child's behavior and actions are a resonance of their parents and I feel this completely. I've seen people who were quite confined and strictly raised when they were younger and as a result they are now a bit different than their peers, probably therefore quiet or probably knowing less things because they weren't allowed to traverse the world of knowledge as he would have needed. And some who are the complete opposite. This creates a divide that basically nobody wants.
Yeah it true it makes them different thanks for sharing your thoughts
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STOPLearning starts from the home. If the children notice how disciplined their parents are, they'll definitely learn to be disciplined too.
Yes true talk