A Man Can Cry But Not Infront of Everyone

Assalamu Alaikum and hello to my Hive Learners community. I hope you are all doing good. I am also doing pretty well. Today I am writing my blog in Hive Learners community.

Today's topic is very interesting. When I saw the topic, I decided to write on it. So, here I'm writing my own experience. I hope you will enjoy it.

Human beings are not machines.They have emotions and feelings, and they need to express those emotions and feelings in front of someone who listens and understands. In a today's hectic life, everyone face problems, Everyone needs a person who listens to his feelings and emotions. We need a helping hand which console is in a bad time.

For becoming a responsible man nowadays has become very difficult. A man faces problems everywhere. At work place he bears lots of bad manners for the sake of his family. A job holder plays like a puppet in the hands of his boss. He wants to share his feelings with everyone. But here I think we should be very cautious while sharing our feelings. Because we should know where to share our feelings and where not. We should choose appropriate person, a soothing, problem solver, encouraging and sincere friend. A friend who stands with us in a bad time. Sharing our feelings with a someone who is sincere to us is not a bad idea at all.

But I think people cry and share their feelings Infront of wrong persons. Although they listen to them Infront of him, but they make fun of him whe he leaves the place. It becomes embracing for him. They humaliate him and tell others about his feelings. So instead of helping, they make fun of him and humaliate him.

I think a man should cry but he should cry and should share his feelings either Infront of his family members or his sincere and close friends. He should also share his feelings Infront of his creator who always there to help us.

I still remember early days of my job. I used to share my thoughts, my feelings Infront of persons who pretend to be my friends but later on I relised they were making fun of me when I leave that place.Then I realised that I should not share everything Infront of everyone.

Crying and sharing your feelings Infront of everyone makes a man weak. A weak man cannot face a society. Human beings are superior creature of God. So I think crying of a superior creature isn't according to his dignity. A man is made to face the hardships and problems of life open heartedly. If he becomes weak, he cannot survive in this era. It's my point of view , you may disagree with it.
It is my entry post in hive learners week 2023 edition two.

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