Setting Age range in marriage isn't fair
Marriage is one of the most important steps in life. Marriage is the name of giving a relationship legal rights. Through marriage, two couples are bound in a relationship legally and formally. Depending on the country, such a thing can be different, but in my country, it's necessary to get married to start a new family as a couple. Whatever, I am keeping the discussion for another day; today, I am going to discuss choosing a partner.
There is no exact age for marriage. Anyone can get married anytime, whenever they think they are capable and mentally prepared for it. Because of that, some people get married late, and some people get married early. In the case of late marriage, it has been seen that some get married to a partner who is younger than the person by decades. Do you think it's ideal? Do you think that it would be good if there were limitations on age? It's like one must get married to a person within 5 years or 10 years of difference. One needs to choose a partner within the range.
In a marriage, what is most important? In my opinion, trust, the sense of responsibility, and having the mentality to continue the relationship. The maturity of a person can play a very important role in that case also, as it is related to understanding and can be related to trust. If there is a huge gap between partners, having different thoughts is very natural because of the generation gap. Misunderstanding can happen because of a generation gap, and such a thing can create distance between couples, and I think it's not surprising. In fact, having conflict and irregular disease is inevitable unless both couples try to understand each other. In my opinion, I don't think it's a good option to marry a person having a generation gap. It is true that even without a generation gap, there is no guarantee a relationship will be good enough. But still, the risk is a little compared to marrying a person having a generation gap.
So, generally, I don't like the idea of marrying a person who is 12/14 years senior. But does it mean there should be a limit for age? I think there should not be such a thing because marriage is a personal decision, and even if someone marries me, a 12/14-year-old senior person, that means both of them agree to enjoy the journey together. Moreover, there are exceptions, and even having a generation gap, couples can also be happy. Setting a limit on age in case of marriage, some people also miss good partners, which is not fair.
In general, most people get married to a person within a 10-year range unless the person is getting married to money (I mean the greedy people). So, even if I don't support the idea of getting married to a senior having a huge age difference, there should not be a rule to get married within a range, as I think it's unfair.
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What an interesting topic, Inti. If that were the case, then people might just choose not to get married rather than be limited in their choices, hehe
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Valid points before going into marriage
Also, I do not support marriage range too, as marriage is a personal decision ..let there be freedom , but again , let's not support child marriage
Uh-huh...
In the end, what matters the most is how both parties feel for each other and how they connect. Because there are some things that age would just not be a sufficient factor in.