Can't forgive everyone
Forgiveness is a great virtue and having that character in one’s personality is a good thing. It says that a person who can forgive others can find peace of mind easily as it allows them to let things go and can overcome emotional barriers easily. In religion it also says that forgiving others is a great habit and almighty also forgive those people who forgive others. I also think that forgiving is a good thing and it’s better for a person not to hold grudge for anyone for long.
Does that mean everyone dissolved away for even after making mistakes are hurting us? To be honest it is quite difficult to answer for everyone because everyone thinks about it from a different perspective. But I can share my thoughts related to it. So, let's start.
In this world nobody is perfect and making mistakes is very natural. Many times, we make mistakes or hurt others unintentionally. When something happens unintentionally, I think a person should not be blamed for it even if from the surface the person is reasonable for it. I think there is no reason not to forgive others in such a case. Even if I get hurt badly, I will choose to forgive because it was not intentional and I can only blame my fate for such a thing.
Every people are not the same and there are many people who actually hurt us and it's intentional. I hate those people who choose to hurt me intentionally for selfish reasons. I keep them in my mind who hurt me for the selfish desires. I think that forgetting the pain from the people is quite hard. I am such a person who always holds grudges if someone does something against me. I don't think I am going to forgive anyone easily given they choose to hurt me intentionally. I think I am not going to forgive anyone for it I am less the person who can give me huge benefit to satisfy me. Instead of it I don't think it can be considered as full forgiveness because I will always try to be extra alert to the person. The situation will be mostly like keeping the person in a consolidation phase.
Can not forgiving others disturb my inner peace? I think no. It's because even if I don't forgive others does not mean I will keep thinking about them. I just feel those people don't deserve forgiveness. In fact, I feel this should be punished for their action and thinking about forgiving them seems ridiculous to me. They are not even worth my effort, and I am not blinded by revenge also and naturally I won't make any manual efforts for revenge and eating also means that there is no way that not forgiving others disturbs my mental peace.
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True to the point dear friend @intishar . When hurt is unintentional, we can easily see and feel which makes us let go immediately without much stress. But when its done intentional, I don’t think it becomes the same energy.
And like you said, we can’t forgive everyone just like they can’t forgive us. But in all, we must work towards our peace of mind.
Happy weekend 😇
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