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RE: A child's mindset determines what he will become in life
Ahh....would i disagree with you for a bit? Yes, what forms a child mindset is basically their upbringing, you know children learn easily from what they see and hear, no matter how a child mindset is, he or she will be closer to either parents amd that will influence the type of mindset they grow up with, some children are closer to their mother so they tend to create their mindset from what their mother would say, like in your case you felt free with your cousin thats why what she said got to you,
For me, my mom's words has always been my strongest bedrock to making some key decisions in life and it has worked
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ok, let me ask some questions since you believe that what forms a child's mindset is their upbringing.
Why are some pastor's children living a wayward lifestyle and their fathers ain't like that?
The story about the two children whose father was a drunkard, they both had the same upbringing, right? why is the first child mindset different from the second.?
Yah i've heard that case scenerio a lot, just to depicts two different societal mindset,
about pastors children, different factors also influence this children, remember their parent do not go with them every were, they are also cases were pastors children also becomes pastors, but in the other case let say society already place a bounty on them to become like their parent which will now cause them to act otherwise, so peer presure becomes more on them, the point i'm making is the family is the first point of contact a child has before going out there, so what you see is either the family has failed in their role, so these kids now fall to the available alternatives like friends and what they watch on tv and society in general
However if the family unit gets it right, they are kids that uphold family virtue very strong, Dangotes wealth today was transgenerational but same thing happen to chalie boy false and others who despite wealth and family status choose otherwise.
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