Sometimes It Is Difficult To Balance Up But It's Possible

Parenting is one task that not everyone can work around. A few days back, I told my children that I feel like just leaving them in a place that I will just cool off for just some weeks; at the same time, I don't know how possible that will be because they are just five and three years, respectively. Thinking of how they will get to cope with issues around them is one thing that makes me not think deeply about what I feel like doing.The major thing I am not involved in in the lives of my kids is when they are asleep.

Starting from the moment they are awake, my daughter has this habit of coming to hug me immediately after she wakes from sleep; after the morning prayers, the next thing you will hear is, Mom, I'm hungry. So it is now left for me to ask her to wait or try to find something that will keep her busy before food gets ready. Sometimes when I want to laugh at myself, I just say that I have been washing Poo every day of my life for the past five years, and at the moment there is no date it's going to stop.

We still have a long way to go, maybe five more years or even ten years.A little drama occurred yesterday after service; my son's godmother, who happens to be my godmother, also came for service with her car. So after the service, my son wanted to go with her with other kids. Or Dad said no because no elderly person will care for them. So I told him to drop; my son cried so badly that I felt bad about it. Some older women told me that I should be allowing them to flow with other kids, as that won't harm them.

On my part, I feel that no one can care for my kids as much as I could; coupled with their age, they need lots of care.Being good parents entails a lot from the couple. I have seen several parents whose major activity is providing for the family and caring less about the moral life of the kids. That one needs to give the kids some space doesn't mean you just leave them to fate. Every stage of a child's life does have its own ups and downs, so the ability to understand the different stages of the children's lives will go a long way in helping those kids gain good balance.It is very important to educate the children on time, as parents.

There is a need to make them friends because it is when they are our friends that it is possible for them to share their feelings with us. At the stage of my kids now, there is no fear that they will hide things from me. Most things they face in school, they come home to tell me, and I correct them in love, and we flow together.Every home does have their own standard; it is very important to have a standard that will help the kids to be balanced. I have a teenager that stays with me, and one thing I noticed with this stage is they are so given to argument, which tends to be a challenge when it comes to growth.

Now, I gave a clear rule: no talking while I am talking and learn to manage your time. Most teenagers are so playful, so I make sure that his activities are scheduled, and I do my best to check his progress.Parenting in a good way takes courage from the couple for them to achieve a desired result. Thank you for visiting my blog.