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RE: Promises are funny things [EN/PT]
She should have been grateful that you helped her out of that mess, some things or secrets don't worth keeping. Another way to this is for the party you told to recommend what you need to do so as to save the situation.
Some people prefer to die rather than let what they cal a secret out.
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I understand what you mean about gratitude and secrets, but things aren’t always that simple. Everyone has their own time to deal with the past, and what might seem like 'a secret not worth keeping' to one person can be an open wound for another, something that needs to be respected. Sometimes helping someone isn’t just about telling them what they should do, but also understanding when it’s time to give them space to find their own way. And yes, some people do prefer to keep certain things at all costs, out of fear, shame, or other reasons - and that is their right, even if it’s hard to understand. I believe the most important thing is trying to balance help, respect, and patience, because every situation has its own nuances