Children are a precious gift from God to parents, a blank slate that requires nurturing and attention that is why it takes two adults to make children, at this tender stage they need lots of love and attention to grow into responsible adults in society tomorrow, but sadly not all children gets to receive lots of love, attention and the right nurture they need at such tender stage.
We live in a world where circumstances that were seen as taboo are now being inflicted on children, there are pedophiles, inattentive parents or guardians, wicked stepmoms or relatives who derive joy from inflicting pain on children, and there are also parents who can barely afford to take care of themselves bearing children without control and leaving them to fate to tend for themselves at the age where they supposed to be taken care of instead, for this reason child support service were put in place to lookout for children who are not given the deserving rights of a child, when discovered, they are taken away from such toxic environment, whatever the case and raised by the government.
Child support services in advanced countries are fully committed to what they do, but the reverse is the case here, that is why a lot of children in my country no doubt regret being born here, it is not uncommon to see a five-year-old child hawking on the street even during school hours, one begins to wonder why children are being used to fend for the family at such a tender age.
I've also witnessed a case where a 3-year-old boy was maltreated by his stepmom on one of my visits to a client's location, I was mad to see the way he was being whipped by the so-called stepmom because he wet the bed, there were fresh and old bruises on his body which shows this was a regular act, the more annoying case was that no one cared to report this woman, while some felt its none of their business since they were not families, for others they couldn't care less because there was little or nothing the authorities would do to the woman, as the one time someone was brave enough to report her, she was released on bail the same day and the evil act of hers continued and even worst than before.
I couldn't concentrate the whole of that day because truly child service isn't functional here and seeing that little child go through such ill-treatment in his father's house made my heart ache, in such a case it would have been better to have the little child separated from such wicked parents and it won't be going too far as most parents are not worth being called one, rather than bring a child to the world to punish him or her, why not give them up for adoption, as there are a lots of couples out there who would take better care of that child. Child support services are in a better position to fish those families out.
The only case where it would be unfair to separate a child from the parent or guardian is a case where that child is being looked after well, and probably the parent had a financial setback due to job loss or temporary health issues, instead, assistance should rather be given to them to help them up back on their feet
In conclusion, it's that important our society prioritizes the welfare and protection of children's rights, speak up when we see a child being maltreated, the government should ensure that child support services are functional and effective in identifying and rescuing those children trapped in toxic environments. Every child deserves love, care, and nurturing, and it's our collective responsibility to create a safe and supportive world for them.
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Hi colleague, you are the first(descending from top), that bears "member" besides your name and that happens to be why I rushed over here now.
Yes I have joined the server several months back, but didn't follow through by doing the intro post to be verified as a member.
I came to finish up, but I don't think I accurately remember the process. I recall we were directed to write our username and date on a sheet, then make a short introduction note and then provide link to our Hive Intro post.
Pls help clarify. Eg do they mean the original intro post I used to begin my Hive journey or a new one.
Sorry for kinda barging in, but who do I know to ask.
Then on your blog, a lil take upcoming
Yea, it's your original Hive intro post, I think you should check the Hive learners community on Discord to confirm why you haven't been verified.
Thanks a lot.
But do people get verified without doing the above?
Because for me to check, suggests you are not satisfied that my not fulfilling the protocol is the reason why I haven't been verified.
I don't even know where to check in the server for reasons outside the protocol.
And even the protocol, you answered only one of it pls. The sheet of paper one, is it not part of it?
Thanks
Indeed "right nurture" is needed nay crucial at a tender age. My Uncle will often say as he taught me and others years back, when erecting a long pole vertically, any little deviation from a straight line in the beginning(that is not corrected) will eventually become a huge deviation when the pole is fully erected.
Catch them young they say. Yes, I agree that brutality is a no-no, let love lead even if the child has to be disciplined. Governments have to help out against brutality.
For me, a child is a blank slate,as it were. Why? Because there are inherent traits every child inherits from their parents. There's also an inherent disposition in every child towards what's not right. So it is no surprise when you see even months old children doing some vengeful things one to another or you notice a child picks up curse words faster than sweet words, it's an inherent weakness they are born with. So alas, I do not see the child as a clean slate really.
My point is, bringing up children is not as easy as it looks, maybe when one just sees children playing around innocently they think it's a piece of cake to raise them. No it's some deliberate duty to nurture them in love. Even in the mum's belly, a child can receive communication and be taught to behave in that context.
Part of my childhood song in our training schools then says– "..if you train a child, you train a nation, catch them young.."
My regards, I think it's time for me to be regular in this tribe.
Thanks in anticipation of your help in my previous note.
Cheers.
I totally get your point of view, and it's still the same as mine, what I meant by referring to a child as a blank slate, is that most of what they become eventually is a result of what they learn from us parents, and yes right from the belly, if a child grows in a family where curse words are prohibited how then will he or she learn them, you see, they become what we make of them
Thanks for your contribution.
Okay I see.
Well I just like to spell it out as it really is, so that parents can brace up appropriately.
Two tables can look exactly alike with same colour, yet one is made of rubber, the other of steel. If both are passed through fire, the difference will be exposed as the rubber one will deteriorate faster.
What am I saying? The tables look same, but inherently are very different.
A lot of parents downplay the inherent capacity of the child. When you know that there's a tendency for the child to get left(as the Americans will say), even without being taught, it helps you do your job better in bringing up that child in all wisdom and love.
It also helps one to be an example to the child in character– the child sees everything and many times learn more by what they see parents do(how the parents live their lives) , than what parents tell them to do.
My pleasure to react to your blog.
Cheers
Sending you an Ecency curation vote!
I wish that child services is functional in Nigeria too. The rate at which children are suffering is disturbing, these children get bad treatment and end up growing with a bad mindset.
Repeating the same circle again