Happy valentines day to you all!๐๐
It is known as a special day๐ to show love to our loved ones๐ค but to me, i see it just as a normal day๐... I do not need a particular day to show love to that person i called my partner..Every day is Valentine!๐ช
I saw so many things today๐ and hear so many things that my ear is now full๐ต... but this post is not meant for gossip so let me lock up๐....
One of the gist i could not bear to digest alone is about a friend of mine, more like a sister to me though, she entered my dm to wish me happy valentine and yea as a norm, i wish her the same and jokingly she sent me a val emoji gift and with the same speed i told her to sent it to Mr. right so he won't get mad at me for taking his gift...๐
The next thing she said burst my bubble, guess what she said๐ฒ
Her boyfriend is celebrating val with his main chick๐ค and infact they even lodged๐, this is where i realize my friend is suffering from a one sided love relationship...๐๐ช๐
Ok what is the point of this post? So many people are tolerating this bullshit in relationship all because of a feeling called Love and it is totally wrong...
From her explanation, i realized the guy was not dating her, she was the one dating the guy and the guy really won't mind to use her since she is so deeply into him... My advice to her was to stop having it in mind that they are both in a relationship because obviously they ain't...
No way someone you are dating would leave you to celebrate lovers day with another person who is obviously the person he likes!....
No matter how deep we are in love, there are some things we must never tolerate in the name of love.....
Love who love you, respect who respect you, cherish who cherish you and lastly appreciate those who stay with you.....
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You see Burl, this thing will never cease to happen, how did she know they lodged?
She's the one forcing the vibe on the guy, a lot of girls are suffering from this and later they will say they serve them breakfast.
Meanwhile, she was the one that started the cooking.
I hope she found the person that will love her truly, love should be shared equally among lovers and shouldn't be one-sided.
yea i wanted to ask this but i let it slide because i was more into telling her to stop thinking they are dating because it seems she is the only one in the relationship.... it will take time but she will eventually move on.....One sided love is bad and it becomes worst if the victim refuse to let go
Yeah, you are very right bro, but you need to tell the truth though. The earlier the better for her
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You are advising someone that is in love?๐๐๐. Too bad she won't hear because one of my friend is passing through the same situation and she is not heeding to me. But the fact she always complain to me of any of his bad action annyos me but I have no choice than to listen๐๐ญ
๐คฃ๐คฃ honestly i know it is pointless advicing someone that is in love but i still make sure to say my mind though, she knows all the bad thing the guy is doing, she even used another line to message him and he denied having a gf.... Imagine lodging another girl on val and she even said she know \that is the main chick so what the hell is she still doing with him lol
I think the money the guy has is holding her back๐๐
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