Friendship is one of the few things in life that goes beyond beliefs, religion, language, and culture. It is built on respect, love, and trust.
Focusing on the differences to connect with others and make friends has made some people lose good friendships.
I have made some good friends in the past, our religion, tribe and beliefs do not tally but we get along so well that those factors have no effect at all on our friendship...
Friendship is beyond chatting and calling each other all the time; these things often happen in the first stage when we are curious about knowing each other, but as time goes on, curiosity ends, and the good memories and tough times together are what keep the friendship bond stronger.
So what is friendship?
Friendship is when the love I have for you can be transferred to your family, loving your family the same way I love you. Friendship is when I tell my people they can rely on you for a little help, even when I am not around, trusting you that you will help them if you are capable of doing what they need.
Friendship is when we can go days, weeks, months and even years without contacting each other but the moment we connect, it feels like the old times, 10 children can not be together for ten years, we should not always expect our friends to always connect with us especially when we are no longer in the same place, there are pressure from works, responsibility to take care of, but then when they reach out to us, we should always be ready to give them listening ears if they need our emotional support or even help them with money if that is what they need, there is nothing like you only call me when you need money, some friends are exempted especially when they use to be very good to us in the past.
Gone are those days when we can chat all day and gisting with our dear friends, adulthood comes with a lot of bills and responsibilities that need to be sorted, so we have less time for ourselves, but that should not stop us from obeying the calls of our friends when they need us.
Regarding the hive learners prompt, I can not end a friendship because our beliefs or religion are not the same; it doesn't even matter at all. What matters more is how you treat me.
I don't like making friends, but I also don't like losing friends, cos I know if I lose my old friends, it will be hard to replace them. Old is golden
No one is perfect, those we love the most would hurt us the most, the pain hits different when the wound is inflicted by those we never expected it from... But before we make rash decisions to end it all, we need to weigh the good and their bad side. If they have always been good to us, one mistake should not end the friendship, when we also offend God, He forgives us...We can do the same for our Friends.
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Beautiful take on this! Indeed no one is perfect and we shouldn’t be rash in taking decisions when we are hurt by a friend.
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Friends are those with whom we can feel the old vibes even if we meet or talk after a long time. I think it's the magic of friendship. This is something I also experienced.
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Those types of friends where you wouldn't meet for a year or more but when you eventually meet it's like old times and the conversations flows effortlessly are really the best. The time that has passed or the distance apart doesn't change much, just gives more materials to discuss about :)