When Marriage Becomes a Burden

See friends, in the life of all of us, some time or the other. Some such incidents happen which change our whole life style or the whole world. Sometimes some incidents are so small that we ignore them, but some incidents are so big that we are not able to ignore them. And sometimes something like this happens in our life, there are some people who ignore things but there are some people who overthink things too much due to which they go into trauma and their mental condition gets very bad and it impacts their health for a long time and they are not able to do any kind of work properly. Well, all of us definitely have the problem of over thinking at some point of time, but gradually with life we ​​forget all these things, but today through this post I would like to tell you about my friend who remained steadfast despite a lot of problems.

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Look, this incident happened about a few years ago when my friend got married and he also got married to the girl with whom he was dating for some time and both of them were getting to know each other and a few years had passed in doing so and they thought that we should convert our relationship into marriage. And something similar happened, he got married and for some time life was quite good and because he was also a working man and his wife was also a working woman due to which both were living in different cities, so slowly as the time of marriage was passing, then the girl started showing her true colors and she started troubling my friend a lot. When a person is sad, he is not able to share his things with anyone outside his family (at the start) because he does not know with whom the next person will share that thing and in what way he will take it.

First of all, I would suggest all of you that whatever problems you have, you should share them with your family members only (or to very close friends ). Try to stay away from such people who can share your things somewhere else. I will not say that nowadays your things cannot be kept confidential, but some people do keep it so. Nowadays it is very difficult to trust people because from this incident I felt that the relationship between the two was going on for a long time so maybe the boy thought that he had known the girl, maybe something else was going on in the girl's mind. And all this started appearing after marriage, I don't know whether he married him for money or property, I don't know what was in his mind, maybe only she would know.

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But after marriage she started troubling my friend a lot, she used to say that she should not even help her parents and she wanted a share from the salary (even though she is working) and who knows what else, she started making a lot of demands. See, if you have a normal life and all these things start happening to you suddenly, then your life becomes very chaotic, there is a lot of tension in your house and you are also not able to remain that happy. I don't know what has happened to the mentality of people these days. They prioritize only money and nothing else matters to them. But this shouldn't happen. No matter how much money you have, if no one loves you, then your life becomes hell. And the same thing happened with my friend.

And in the end, just what you all were imagining happened, in the end a settlement was made, I can't tell you the exact amount, the amount of the settlement must also be quite good because he also used to work in a good company and the girl also used to work. I don't know whatever the reason may be, but the girl suddenly changed and she started troubling my friends family a lot, which was not a good thing at all. See, whenever such incidents happen, we all wonder what is happening these days by looking at the people around us, but nowadays we are seeing the same thing everywhere and I feel that all these things will become common in few years around us.

Look, even though my friend has moved on from all of these things, it still things burns in his mind, and perhaps he'll be even more afraid to trust anyone else next time because that's how you break down. And regaining trust becomes much more difficult. I hope he will be happy, lets hope for the best.

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