Understanding the Emotional Burden Fathers Bear in Silence

Although both parents play a vital role in our lives and people are lucky to get love from both parents, some people do not. They all remain deprived of this love, but those who have the shadow of parents or the love of parents, I do not know why they are not able to realize this, children have more love, it has been seen like this most of the time because mother is more kind and the embodiment of love, yes in childhood the mind is also very sad. Still, all that is for our good only because if she had not done this, then maybe we would not have been like this. Women were given a different status in society, they are seen with respect, but it is also sad to see that nowadays the time is becoming very arrogant and it is becoming a very scary and painful place for women, sometimes watching the news itself makes one very sad and one feels like catching such people and killing them.

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Well, we all have seen that whenever a woman is pregnant, she gets maternity leave and it is for about two months. Usually, whenever the child is about to be delivered, she gets it two months before because in such a situation, it is very important to take care of your health, in most offices, all this is seen and women are given leave accordingly. If you are a government employee, then you get this facility easily, but perhaps in private, you may have to face some difficulties because you have to work from home as well. Maybe you are given work but you have to work. There are very few people who understand all these things and give you 2 months, but this does not happen in most private companies. There are benefits of being a government employee that you get such leaves easily and you can take care of yourself and your children without any worry.

We have seen here that earlier women were on leave. I would not say that those problems are such that they cause us pain but still there is pain and suffering because the child who is about to be born needs a lot of care. If you live in a nuclear family, then it is your responsibility as a father or husband to take care of you and the child and arrange all the comforts for them, and in such a situation, you have to work very hard and look after many things because earlier they used to get everything readymade but now you have to do everything for them and to tell the truth, the character of a father is very strange, he never lets his pain and suffering come out, instead, he plays with everything and he remains very strict but a father is also very soft from inside and maybe he does not feel like sharing his pain with anyone when he does not want to do so because by doing so he will prove himself weak or They will appear weak and because of their chest, they remain safe from all these things.

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Even if a father does not show it, he also has a lot of mental stress. Office stress and then coming home, there is the stress of other things. There are very few people who avoid all these situations and are always happy, but believe me, it becomes a little difficult to always be happy because sometimes the situation is not in our favor and we do get stressed. Imagine if you work in an office and there is a lot of workload in your office and at this time or along with that, there is a pregnant woman in your house and you are worried about her and also thinking about your work. Sometimes you get late from work and then you have to go home and do all the other work and a lot of other things have to be done, but in such a situation, there are very few people who share their problems with their family. Some people make addiction their passion, but I believe that doing this is a very foolish thing, we should not do this. Instead, we should spend time with our family, and with the money that we are spending on alcohol, we should take something for our home and eat it with them.

Everyone needs leave because the father also has a lot of responsibilities on his head, there is the burden of office work, family and a lot more, but believe me, when you become a father you don't get time for all these things, you become so busy that you spend your entire life in fulfilling the comforts of your children and family members, there are very few people whose children understand their pain and suffering and spend time with them and listen to their problems, today's generation has become very different, we may click photos and post them on social media, but in reality, the love within the family is decreasing a lot and this is a sad thing.

Father, leave is required and they should also get it because even when a woman is pregnant it is necessary for a man to also stay with her they have to face a lot of mental and physical problems and if everything goes well then there is happiness but if everything did not go well some sad news came and in the end, it is very sad, even though women express their feelings but men often keep their feelings hidden and this trend has been going on but now this thing is changing perfectly too, I here believe that men should also be given parental leave and they also have a right to spend some happy moments with their children when they are small.

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