The Silent Rules of Messaging: Habits, Boundaries, and Social Media Minimalism

Well, everyone has different types of rules in life, and it takes some time to understand people. If you are with your old friend or childhood friend, then you know their habits. Yes, some habits are prevalent. Some people are more fond of sending stickers than talking and I am one of them and I enjoy sending stickers and emojis a lot. Sometimes I irritate people by doing this. But different people have their own rules someone puts a dot at the end of the message someone sends a long message together and someone sends different messages in one line. These are all different ways of people sending messages. All this can be different according to everyone.

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Believe me, my social media life is very minimal, I neither use Instagram nor Facebook or any other platform, yes I have WhatsApp because I get office messages on it and sometimes some updates come in some groups, for I have WhatsApp. I do not get along very well with anyone, if I meet someone then we talk face to face and I do not have any such rules but still, there are some things that I especially keep in mind and I think we all should keep this in mind because by doing this we can save ourselves and others as well from reading it in person.

Nowadays people text a lot. I am not talking about SMS, but some people still do it, who do not like social media platforms. I have some acquaintances who neither use WhatsApp nor any other platform, they use SMS through which they contact people. Initially, I also found it a little strange, but now I have got used to it because maybe they do not like it and maybe it is their problem because of what is going on in their life or whatever it is, but many people like to text a lot and talk to many people at a time. To be honest, I do not like this. I only talk to one person at a time. Yes, sometimes I talk to an old friend and that conversation becomes very long. I prefer to call instead of texting because in such a situation we can understand each other's conversation more easily and can talk to each other easily.

Well to tell you the truth, I get messages from people only when someone is short of time and I also probably remember them now when I am free because everyone is busy in their own life and I do not want to disturb anyone unnecessarily like this and whenever something good happens I just call them because that is a good way to meet someone. I do less work through the text. We do not talk face to face for more than a week but still when you are with your friends then I feel the need to show you something. I don't have to tell them how you are and if I know everything about your likes and dislikes then your friends will start and you don't need to say anything.

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Although there are no such rules, still I prefer that people don't share their private things too much. Still, it is not right because nowadays a lot of digital things get leaked, so I think that in such a situation sharing your private photos or private things is not a good thing because in such a situation sometimes we can get into serious problems. And do not share anything with unknown people, if someone is your acquaintance then only share something with them that you feel should be done, otherwise don't share such things with any stranger without any reason because even if you are a friend today, tomorrow you don't know what will happen to you, so you are the only one who can keep yourself safe and you have to keep yourself safe, nobody else can protect you.

Sometimes during conversation due to flow problems, we say a lot of things and we regret that but whenever you message, don't do it in a hurry, take some time before messaging because in haste people make wrong decisions and you should avoid doing this and if you are answering any question then take your time and then reply because sometimes in haste we read something wrong or sometimes take wrong meaning of things and by the time we realize it, it is too late, so reply with some patience and rest all of you are intelligent, everyone knows what is right and what is wrong for him and all of you should use your discretion and keep yourself safe.

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