The Cost of Misunderstandings in Friendships and Family

Well, a lot of things keep happening in our life, we form relationships with a lot of people, some are our family and some are our friends, in a family, everyone is close but there is no love between them, they are part of a family just for a show, that's all. Nowadays, such situations are increasing a lot when we see that people live with each other. Still, there is no love between them, they live their lives with each other and this has become a very common thing, people have started getting more attached to materialistic things and due to such things, the distance between people is increasing, whether it is any relationship or friendship or love in your family. A lot is changing, there are very few people around us who remain satisfied with few things, otherwise, everyone is running after things and this race is such that it never ends, some people are fond of collecting materialistic things, some people want a house, some people want gifts if your partner or your family members fulfil all your wishes then you remain happy or you maintain a good relationship with them, when they fail to make you happy, then you become sad and you start getting angry with them.

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Well, we all do such things in our life due to which we get separated from many people. Sometimes doing things is necessary and sometimes it becomes our compulsion, but many times we have seen that distance comes in relationships gradually and it takes time and we do not even realize this. How many of you are still in touch with your school friends or your college friends? Probably very few people are there who are capable of doing this. I consider myself lucky that I am still very close to some of my school friends I had made many friends in college too, but there was one friend among them who was very close and we spent a few years together in college, going and coming from school and college together and roaming around, we spent many memorable moments together.

Sometimes circumstances are such that we don't even realize it and because of these actions, there is a distance in our relationship and this time comes after a long time. My college friend and I had started a business together for about a few months. Yes, it was not that profitable but we were happy that we did some work together and it was also quite good. But I don't know why after that we did not talk much and slowly the incomplete story increased. But some time ago, maybe it was last year, one night I got a call from him and I don't know what he was talking about. I was not able to understand anything. Maybe there was some misunderstanding. He called me because of that. I don't know whatever the matter was but he had a big misunderstanding that I had shared something about him with someone who I was not close to. I am telling the truth. I don't share people's things here and there because I only talk and work, so there is no question of telling things.

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But I don't know why my friend got into a misunderstanding about something and after that, our conversation reduced a lot and I am sad that my friend did not trust me even that much and blamed me and without listening to me he got angry, whenever we meet we don't even talk that much as we used to talk earlier. The conversation is not like before, now he is also busy in his life, I also do a job, he also does a job, he has also got a caste but still I will be happy for the rest of my life that he blamed me for this thing which I had not even done, maybe I had some way by which I could have proved that I did not share that thing which he felt but what can we do, I don't even know who told him and what was told but whatever the reason may be but due to a misunderstanding our friendship is not the same as it used to be earlier.

Nowadays, it has become very difficult to manage any relationship because very few people understand each other and understand each other's feelings. Such relationships are rarely found. Earlier, people were very intelligent and brothers used to give importance to each other and used each other's weaknesses and strengths very wisely, but nowadays, times are changing and relationships are also changing very fast around us. So, whatever steps we take to build our relationships or strengthen them, we should take them wisely because a wrong step may create a rift in your relationship and you cannot do anything except repent later, as it happens to me sometimes, I laugh but now what can we do when the bird has eaten the crop.

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In the end, I would like to say that nowadays it has become very difficult to manage relationships, no matter how much love there is between you, sometimes the circumstances are not in your favour and sometimes your luck is also not with you and things go against you and you do not even understand what to do. So if you want to maintain love and trust in your relationship, then you should stay loyal and regardless of how your partner or your family members are treating you, you will reap what you say. Keep this in mind and just live your life and enjoy.

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