Setting Boundaries: How to Keep Kids Disciplined Without Being Harsh

It has become very difficult to take care of children because parenting has become very difficult and it is even more difficult to keep them in discipline. Because earlier there used to be very few things but now there are so many material things around us and we are all so engrossed in all those things that we are unable to pay attention to our children. I have often seen that even small children are sent for tuition because their parents do not want their children to take care of them or there is also a thing that perhaps the small children do not listen to them, due to which they have to do this. If you want to keep children disciplined, then you need a childhood and you have to inculcate good habits in them, like nowadays the most that can be inculcated is to keep them away from smartphones, I am not saying that you should keep them away completely, everything looks good if used in a limited area but if used excessively or excessively then it becomes the reason for wastage.

The same is happening with technology these days, earlier the trend was very low but now gradually the trend is increasing very fast and in such a situation it becomes a little difficult to keep the children disciplined but see, it is not that it is completely impossible because children become like the way we educate them, so we will have some difficulty in the beginning because we will have to work with them a little so that they can become capable of becoming good human beings in a society. See, all these things cannot be done in a day, all these things take a lot of time and often we have seen that children become like the people around them, even if they do not have every quality but some qualities or the other come in them like them. So you should take care of the kind of people he is keeping company with and nowadays scolding and misleading children is not the way to go. Earlier times were different but now children are brought up with a lot of love but you should not give so many facilities to your children that they get spoiled. You have to give them trouble as well as facilities. You should know how to strike a balance otherwise things can get very difficult.

Everyone has a different way of handling their children. Some people understand their children with a lot of love but some people make them understand by scolding them. If I talk about myself, my father was very status-conscious in childhood and to be honest, I used to be very scared of him but it is not so and now when I see him, I cannot believe that he used to do something like this with us in life. With time, a person also keeps changing and this is human life it is human nature to change with time and it is necessary too. See, beating children is not a good thing and neither does it have a good impact. Children are very innocent and we can explain to them with love, so this is also a good thing children should be afraid of things that are bad for them and for that, we should also give them tokens. If someone is doing such work that is bothering your children, then you should keep your children away from them or stop children from going near them. And we should spend more time with children, you should play with them because if you entertain children or spend time with them, then they do not get bored and they do not need things.

We should play games with children and focus on our physical activities with them. Nowadays many children just sit on mobile phones and computer laptops, due to which there is a huge impact on their health, but see, it does take a little time and these things should be started from childhood itself and we all should definitely teach our children what is right and what is wrong. If your child is three-four years old, then please send him to a private or government school where he has to learn something or the other, but when the child meets other children and goes to school, he gets to learn different things. If he stays at home, he does a lot of things there and he does not know what kind of things he should do, but when he goes out, he sees that there are different types of children here and he gets to learn a lot, so he should be sent to school as soon as possible and children of today are very smart and we must pay attention to this thing and they should learn good things and should learn such things which will prove beneficial for them.

See, everyone has their own thinking and can share their views on this topic according to that, but these are my views. Do share your views in the comments. Thank you.

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