There are many such bitter moments in life when we consider ourselves helpless and we assume that we have no way out and no one is going to help us. This happens in everyone's life, some remain strong even in such circumstances some lose courage and some even take the wrong steps. Believe me, no matter how complex your problem is, everything requires a cure, you just need to find it. I have not just been here, I have felt this myself even though it takes some time to understand things, things come back on track, you just have to give it some time.
Life is not that easy, we just have to make it easy. You must have seen how happy some people are even with less money and some people always remain unhappy even after working more. Bring as much simplicity as you can in life and the happier you will be. The more you add things here and there in your life, the more you will get worried. Less people fewer problems.
Problems are different in everyone's life, for me the problem came in the form of money and it is still going on, yes I am lucky that I have a house to live in, clothes to wear, and food to eat. And on top of that, I have also got a good job. But it doesn't happen as we think, God has some other plan for us. No matter how much planning you do, whatever is going to happen is bound to happen and everything happens in your life for some reason or the other. It just depends on how you take it.
I am a person who leads a very simple life. I spend most of my time at home and rarely go out anywhere. Yes, sometimes I go with friends, but nothing like this. I don't like too much crowd. I don't like even spend money, so the overall thing is that my expenses are quite limited and the amount I earn is enough for me at the moment. But I am not able to spend that money on myself or maybe I want to save it but due to some reason every year that saved money also goes out of my pocket and sad to say that I am not able to spend it on myself. And I have to give that money to others to repay the loan which I never took. Yes, there are different types of people in the family. But believe me, whether you are connected with your family or not, in the end only your family is going to be of use to you, no one else can do your work. So always share your thoughts with your family and if there is any problem, then all should do it together. Discuss it but believe that some solution will be found.
But believe me, this year has been very hard for me, still, one more month is left. I don't know what is still to be seen, this year has been very painful for me, I hope that the next year will be better than this year, just hope. We can do the rest and see what happens. At the beginning of this year, I had to take a little loan because my brother had borrowed from I don't know from many people. I had to borrow to repay his money and he doesn't even care about how much money he owes. The amount to be given will be limited only when people start coming to the house to take the money, so in the end, feeling embarrassed, my father and I arranged the money and then there are some debtors there are still many people to whom the money is yet to be paid. Believe me, if my friends had not helped me at that time. Then perhaps I would not have been able to arrange such a huge amount. I am thankful to them that they got me out of such difficult times. Yes, there is still a need to pay money to many people, but now I am determined. I am not going to pay a single penny now because believe me, I am tired of all these things, let someone else fill them, what's the matter?
Believe me, a few few days of this year have seen so many headache days, I can tell you that you had sleepless nights and in such a situation you don't even feel like going anywhere, you just think that by whatever means, this day should pass and that's it. Something becomes normal but it is not a dream that you just open your eyes and everything will become normal. It takes some time for everything to become normal. I hope that next year everything will become normal and my life will be normal again. I will be happy, rest let's see what happens.
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I don't like crowds either.. and I hate how expensive everything is these days.. I feel robbed every time I go out anywhere... food shopping, restaurants, everything.
Before I didn't care but now I am more in control of my expenses... I prefer investing than wasting nowadays.
Oh I'm lost for words after reading this. I understand how you feel when you have worked so hard and saved up money for a personal need and you are spend it on others without having any for yourself. And having to borrow money to pay off a debt which you didn't incur is even more painful.
Well since it's family, I guess there's nothing you can do about it but would suggest that you allow him be responsible for the debt he incurred for once so he understands that making money isn't so easy.
It's also good to read that your friends helped out, that's quite commendable.
Please in all you do, remember that you have your life to lead and one day will have your own family to take care of. This is the time to start planning for that.
Take care of yourself.
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Suffering the past is suffering your own memory. Suffering the future is suffering your own imagination.
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Bhai bola Hai....bade hone ka jitna ho sakega Kar dunga....but this kind of phase gives some important life lesson....
Simplicity makes our life happier but most of us try to think about it in difficult ways. I think such kind of mindset makes people unhappy also.
What's to say, I think it's a family issue of your family and I should not say anything about it. But I feel you and your family members insisting on your brother to continue doing such kind of thing because each time you and your family members try to protect him and he is not getting his lesson. I know about your that brother and his act because once you said about it. I am sorry if my word hurts you and It's not my intention.
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