Not Everyone Deserves Unlimited Chances
All kinds of people live around us, some people are very kind and some people are not as kind as they appear. See, the kindness that is there in people is natural, it does not come to you by looking at you, if you are walking on the road and you see someone helpless, then if you are kind then you will definitely go to help him, but if you are not that kind then maybe you will not even care about that thing and you will keep walking. Many times it happens that people take wrong advantage of your kindness or forgiveness because they know that this person will forgive us no matter what the situation is. In such a situation, if people take wrong advantage of you, then you should think carefully and decide whom to forgive and whom not.
Many times we all come across such things which we cannot ignore even if we don't want to. Some situations arise due to our own reasons but some things happen which come to our notice suddenly. Sometimes it happens that a particular person does something which makes us angry but after some time when our anger subsides then we forgive them but sometimes the situation becomes so extreme and so much out of hand that we do not see any option and we are not able to forgive them. You see, many people are very compassionate and they forgive any kind of person and they think that they should always be given a second chance.
But does everyone deserve a second chance? I don't think so. Some people improve but there are many who take undue advantage of things and cheat you by taking advantage of your helplessness. Many people may seem very bad to you in appearance but how they are in reality is known by the people around them because they do not let their reality be revealed to anyone and we all should stay away from such people.
Many people around us are very innocent and they do not realize what kind of person they are dealing with because nowadays everyone takes advantage of the goodness of others and the person who is simple or innocent does not understand all these things, all these things are unknown to him and he might feel that the whole world is like him. In reality the world is a bit different, people are not what they appear to be, the reality is much different and it is very painful when people take undue advantage of such people, many times we want to forgive such people but our society creates such a situation that even if we don't want to, we are not able to ignore them and forgive them.
Many people are worthy of being ignored, if you encourage them too much then this FIR can prove to be harmful for you, so what I feel is that it is not necessary to forgive every single person, it depends on the kind of person he is and his behavior, if that person makes the same mistake again and again and the FIR is accepted from you only that you forgive him, then maybe you should think what you have to do with such people, otherwise we all are intelligent these days.
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While I understand your point, I'm one of those who believe that helping others is never a bad thing, as long as it doesn't harm anyone else. Helping others makes me feel at peace with myself.
I doubt I would give anyone unlimited chances, even if it was my kids there has to be a limit for everything, I mean I will never let them sleep on the streets, I know some who are just too naive and think they have to help everyone but that is not the case, we are not all here to solve others ppl problems or more complex problems of the world where we are just a grain of sand on the immense beach, there is a limit for everything and I always try to let know ppl they cant be trying to solve or help everybody, there are some mean ppl out there and some who love to be carry by the hand
I like how you point out that appearances can be deceiving. Often, someone’s true character is only visible to those close to them, and outsiders may not see the reality. That’s a reminder to value discernment, knowing when to extend grace and when to set boundaries.