Modern Paths to Parenthood: Adoption, Surrogacy & Emotional Complexity

Not everyone is fortunate enough to have children. Some people are deprived of these joys, trying for years and trying many things, but still they are deprived. Yes, it's possible to adopt children, but not everyone chooses this approach. Everyone has their own preferences and reacts accordingly. You can't force anyone to adopt, and in some places, if you want to adopt a child, there's a complex process and extensive investigation. Many people have children at a young age, which leads them to abandon them in orphanages, or, should I say, abandon them. Many even resort to abortion. Everyone has a lot of choices, but those who do not have the happiness of all these things, there is a lot of sadness in their life, and they make all kinds of efforts to fulfil it.

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Many people nowadays also opt for surrogacy. In this case, your child is carried in another mother's womb, and then, once born, it is handed over to you. This also involves a lot of paperwork, and you have to bear the expenses of raising the mother who will give birth to your child. You also have to take care of the mother's health, subjecting her to periodic tests and injections to ensure a healthy child. There are many things to keep in mind if you are considering surrogacy. A mother is a very different kind of person; she is often very kind, but sometimes the opposite happens, where the mother is extremely cruel and even inflicts severe cruelty on her children.

See, whenever a mother carries her child in her womb for nine months, it becomes a kind of attached to it. In many places, people discriminate between children at birth. If it's a boy, he's loved more, and if it's a girl, she's not loved as much. But this isn't the case everywhere. For the mother, all children are equal and loved equally. But look, everyone has a favourite child. If you have several children, one of them is bound to be your favourite. Even if you don't recognise it, everyone has a favourite child. Everyone develops a strong attachment to their children. And this attachment is a common thing. If a surrogate mother develops an attachment to her children. Even if she has to give the child to someone else, there's still a certain attachment.

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My opinion here is that if a surrogate mother is pregnant, she shouldn't have any kind of emotional connection after the children are born, because it can have a profound impact on their lives. Yes, they should talk to the children occasionally if they wish, or they shouldn't. That all depends on the parents, and they can decide everything when agreeing. Only if a mother is willing to accept all these things should they accept the child. Sometimes, the mother becomes too attached to the child and ultimately refuses to give it up, creating a lot of trouble for the would-be parents. They have to wait for about nine months; yes, the mother has also raised and cared for the child for nine months. However, if you do anything against the agreement, you could face legal action.

Look, you should get all these things in writing beforehand so you don't face any future problems. It's very common for a mother to feel attached to her children, but if you keep her away from her heart, or if you raise her somewhere far away, then the child may not develop as much attachment to her mother. Nevertheless, it's often seen that if a child has any kind of doubt, they can search for information about themselves on the internet today. And it's possible that if the real mother stays in contact with her, one day she may reveal the truth to her, which could significantly change their current relationship. Therefore, I believe that all these things should be clearly stated in the agreement itself, including whether the mother will be allowed to see her children or not, and any other conditions should be clear beforehand to avoid any misunderstandings in the future.

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