Men Don’t Cry? A Myth Created by Society

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See, men are shown to be very strong in the society and most of the times the image of a man that has been created in our mind is that of a strong man who never gets worried in any situation and faces it bravely. Earlier this used to happen often because earlier the work of humans especially men was that they used to fight and travel here and there and the work of women was that they used to take care of the house, their work was not done and whatever other work was there was done, it was done by men. But now the society has changed a lot and in many places women are taking charge of things and women are also getting the opportunity to take a leading role. Compared to the past, many new things have come up for women and they are also getting the opportunity to do jobs under different types of schemes. See, a new identity of man is always visible that he is very strong and he never cries and his image is such that he probably cannot spoil his image even if he does not want to and he cannot spoil it in front of everyone.

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Everyone's circumstances are different. Some people are very happy and they remain in a happy mood due to which they do not face much trouble and they face any troubles very boldly. Sometimes the circumstances become such that even if one does not want to, one is unable to do anything and he becomes helpless at the time. Many times it is seen that sometimes such circumstances arise in the society due to which especially the man has to face a lot of harassment and even if he does not want to, he is unable to do anything. In a way, it becomes such that he cannot do anything. You must have seen this many times in movies or web series that how this happens, but see, the man is shown as very strong and will not back down or leave the farmers in any way and will not accept defeat in the circumstances, but see, the society has changed a lot and now men also share their emotions with the people.

Nowadays men are also harassed in many ways, after marriage they are seen to be emotionally damaged and are also mentally harassed, sometimes there are many reasons in jobs also, it is okay, every person does not share his circumstances with anyone outside, some people share their circumstances with their friends, some people share their circumstances with their family and sometimes when some people consume alcohol, they start crying after that but they do not share this with everyone with whom they share their sorrow. See, we should not ignore this fact in any way, rather we should appreciate that he is sharing his sorrow with us. See, listening to someone's sorrow is also a great favor because in a way you are listening to his pain and you get a chance to get more close to him.

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Look, any man who is outside the understanding of anyone, according to my understanding, does not share his circumstances nor does he share his sorrows. I personally believe that whatever happiness or sorrow we have, we should not share it with anyone because tomorrow any person can change his nature and can create a problem for you. I, a Muslim, follow these things that whenever I feel sad, I do not share anything with anyone and I prefer to stay alone and sometimes I find solutions myself and when the situation becomes very serious, I spend time with some people and then I feel much better. But whenever you are in any kind of trouble, do not do anything that you will regret later. Many times when we are angry or feel very low, we do such things for which we will regret later, but we should not do this. In the end, we all are human beings and everyone has emotions and we all have the right to express them to others and we should do so because if you suppress your emotions then they can prove to be harmful for you. If you suppress your emotions too much then a time comes when you become like that and your personality slowly starts changing. See, if you are in some trouble and you feel like crying, then you don't necessarily have to cry, you can go and cry silently in front of everyone and it all depends on you how you want to express your emotions in front of people and sometimes crying is not that bad.

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