Help Yourself First, But Don’t Be Afraid to Ask
Everyone in life needs someone or the other kind of help at some point of time, yes some people are very lucky that they may not need help from anyone but I don't think that anyone does not need a person in life. It depends on where you are, what is your nature, it depends a lot on who will stand with you if you need help or whether someone will help you or not, a lot becomes clear from your behavior also. There are many people who fool people or hurt their feelings by telling lies, so it becomes a little difficult to get help for such people because people cannot trust them. See, if you break someone's trust once, then it becomes a little difficult to get it back.
Actually, my nature is such that whenever I have any problem, I try to deal with it myself and I try to solve the problem myself and I do not need to take help from any person, but sometimes things are not in our hands, so we have to take help or advice from other people a lot and sometimes we need it very badly.
Try to deal with it yourself first:
My first effort is that I will not ask for help from anyone as much as I can, it is not that no one will help me, but I feel a little safe or should I say whatever problem I have. I first try to deal with it myself and if things go out of my control then I definitely take help from my friends and family members. There are ups and downs in life, we should not think that if there is happiness today then there will be happiness in our life, if there is happiness today then there will be sadness tomorrow, if there is sadness today then there will be happiness tomorrow, this cycle keeps going on. And in such a situation, if you ever need someone's help, then you must take it because We all are here for some time only, everyone's time is not fixed, some will go soon, some later, but if you help people and also take help from them, then in what form will they remember you.
Ask only those who are trustworthy:
I believe that not every person should share his problems because many people do not want to help you, they just want something for gossip or should I say they want some topic on which they can discuss or should I say something which keeps them interested. And most of the people make fun of you, so you should not share your things with everyone and there are very few people who are ready to help you, all these things also depend on how you behave with others, if you help other people in their troubles then maybe they will be ready to help you as well. And even today one should not ask for help from everyone because not every person is worthy of him, not everyone's circumstances are worthy of him that he would like to help you, many times people want to help you but they are not able to help you due to any reason.
So the bottom line is that we must help each other and also take help. It is not that you should always rely on someone. First, you should try to deal with the problem yourself. If the problem goes out of your hands, then you must take help from your friends, relatives and loved ones.
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So thankfully, I'm not the only one in this.... There's this safe place in you when you can actually deal with your problems yourself first even if you may need to seek external help later and it should be from trustworthy people like you mentioned and not from those who intentionally wants you to share your problems to have a new gist with their clique
Well said, you have provided some valuable thoughts to ponder.
One thing I'd like to share from one of the known personality from the history - He said, "Do take advice from your trustworthy persons, whether they are your mentor, friends or any one from your family, think about those advices and take the decision, but the decision must always be yours."