Free Will or Social Pressure: What Controls Our Lives?

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It is said that if you live in the society then you have to follow the rules and regulations of the society and some things seem good to you and some things do not seem good to you. See, you must have seen many people who are considered to be very good and polite in the society. Those people are often considered good who follow the rules made by the society, get married on time, get a good job, go to office on time and come back on time, this is an ideal lifestyle of a good man and a good woman. See, in every society and in different countries, different standards are set on the basis of which people judge each other or define what kind of person he is, whether he is good or bad. There are many things on which people are judged and in every society and different religion, there are different rules, laws, different provisions on the basis of which all this is done.

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Although we all want to do a lot of things in life, not everyone is able to do it because there are many reasons.

Free Will -:

we want to do a lot of things in our life, but sometimes the shackles of society stop us or there are some such things in our family due to which we stop and are not able to fulfill our desires. If there is a person whose household expenses are on him and he has the responsibility of the kingdom, then he does not get much time for himself to think and in a way he sacrifices his life there and this is also not a good thing, I feel like this because if you are not able to do anything for yourself If you are working and living your life just to fulfill the wishes of others, then perhaps you should think a little about yourself.

I know some people who do a lot of things against their will and even reach a good position and sometimes some people fail but see if you do something according to your will then I feel that you do not regret it as much. If you do things under someone's pressure then you fail or you do not achieve success then you find a person on whom you can put the blame. Free Will means that you can do things as per your wish whether you like it or not.

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Others Happiness -:

Often we make many sacrifices in our lives for the happiness of others and to make others happy. Many times it happens that you like something but you are not able to buy it for some reason or you are not able to buy it very badly because maybe you want to buy something else for someone else who is special to you or for some of your loved ones. Many people sacrifice their lives for the happiness of others and do not even think much about themselves and seeing them makes me very sad. It also happens because everyone has their own life and everyone should live it.

It is also important to make others happy. If you do all this willingly then it is a good thing, but if you are doing all this out of compulsion then perhaps you are creating problems for yourself. Look, some people like to help others and they do such work in the society which brings glory to them. And if you want to do something from your heart then you perform well there and no matter what happens outside.

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See, if you want to live in the society then you have to follow the rules of the society. If you do so now then you are a gentleman, if you don't then you are a worthless person. If I speak from a man's perspective then see, what is normal is that the man is the financial support of the house and he has a lot of responsibilities on his shoulders. I will not say that girls do not do this nowadays, it is different everywhere. I am talking about a normal typical Indian middle class. And a lot of responsibility lies on men and it is also their responsibility to arrange for whatever expenses their family has and some people have this responsibility since childhood and they do not even get a chance to think about themselves.

Even though we set standards in the society, but if not everyone can meet these, it does not mean that the person is wrong because everyone has a different life and you cannot judge them. Not everyone has got the same kind of upbringing or the same kind of environment to grow up in. Whatever your environment is, so you become, if not today then tomorrow.

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