Everyone Has Their Own Speed ā Stop Comparing Yourself
See friends everyone has a different speed in doing things some people are very talented in this matter why they remember new things very quickly and can also learn things very quickly but there are some people who take some time but they also learn. Everyone has his own speed so first of all we should not compare ourselves. I feel like this because no one is perfect it can happen that a particular person may be good in some field but he may not be good in the field in which you are good. Many times we compare and things go very wrong. First of all you should not compare yourself with anyone, if you do so then you feel very bad inside I have felt like this, earlier I used to do this but now I have made some changes in myself, it is not that big a change but it has a huge impact if you stop comparing yourself and stop comparing it. It may be that you may not think this is such a big thing, but it is a very big thing. You should try it and see if you compare yourself if you do not do this then it will bring a lot of change in your life.
If I talk about myself, I would neither call myself a slow learner nor a fast learner, it depends on what the thing is, if I find that thing exciting or I am interested in it, then I learn that thing very quickly and if I find that thing boring and I am not interested in it. I am learning it forcefully, then things can become difficult for me and this does happen. As I said, everyone has a different way of grasping things. Some people grasp things very quickly but some people take time, so there is nothing to worry about in this. Look, some people have very good memory and some people do not have it, there is nothing wrong in this but I feel that this is a very good ability.
You too must have some friends who can understand a particular moment in great detail and you might not be able to understand it in the same way, it could be that you are one of them. See whenever you batch or you do anything then try to listen to things with focus on you, only then you will be able to understand things, if you are doing such things to pass free time or just to calm people down then it is going to cause problem to you only. So everyone has his own abilities and everyone has their own capabilities, many people are born with similar abilities but it is not that you should compare yourself with others that he can do this why can't I do this, you can take it in a positive way, you can change yourself but you should never take it in a wrong way. Because if you do so then it may cause problems for you only.
Like I am interested in a lots of things but still there are some things which I have a lot of problem in learning and understanding, that is maths related. If I come across any complex thing then I get a little worried because I feel that it is beyond my understanding. No, then I make myself aware that it is not possible that I will learn everything but I can do well in the field which I like and in that I keep on learning something new for which I am also proud of myself. I will not even say that I am very good in any particular field, just see I understand things and once I understand then things become much easier and I can make others understand those things as well and I will just say that nothing is easy, we just make it so because the way we repair our mind, things cannot be like that for us, if we think that something is difficult for us then it remains difficult because we think that it is If it is easy then that also becomes easy. So all in all, it is a game of our mind only. If you can prepare your mind that whatever you want to do is easy, you do not need to climb the entire mountain by doing it. You start with small steps and keep learning things.
Think, when we are born we do not know anything, we learn things gradually, similarly we can learn other things also, take it like this and make some changes in your mind because any particular person who is perfect in any field now was not like this from the beginning, some people are very talented and God gifted but you can also change things with practice, I feel so.
So overall its all in our mind xd.
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This comparing with others is like telling a fish to climb a tree. Everyone has their unique way of seeing things, every person's approach is different from another.