Is cheating a choice?

"You cheated" this term hits our auditory canal multiple times but behind the scene what's transpiring is unknown to us. In this post you will find out the roots, incentives of this cheating. Let's get started;

Preliminary stages of cheating ;

• In childhood what we know about cheating is only restricted to games or exams. Where we have to verify ourselves during a competition with others. Now what we believe is only for success. According to me cheating is done to gain success by hook or crook. Do we learn cheating in our premature stages of life I suppose yes. When we snatch something from other and hide or consume it I guess it's the same cheating and thus happens among kids. Now here another action is involved which is falsehood , dishonesty. Thereby a single act of cheating accompanies other bad evils.

Progression with growth;

• After fulfilling the earlier stages we merit the secret keeper stage. We are told the secrets but we keep on cheating and disclose them to others may be for benefit or for ascertaining our loyalty. It's the school or college going phase. Until then we are not aware of the true meanings of ethics. Things are insignificant in front of us as our maturity level is in its initial stages. Little fights can come to pass in order to cease us from this deed of depravity but only few learn lessons from this.

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The relationship stage ;

• Emotions are fully involved in this state of cheating. Love, emotions and attachments are hurt, it not only destroys your physical status you have to suffer from trauma after getting ditched in a relationship.

Genealogy of cheating ;

• This act doesn't emanate instantly there are multiple causes which can ignite a person to select the way of cheating. What are these incentives let's have a look;

-Money
-Revenge
-Psychological disorder
-Greed
-Ego
-Proving loyalty to other
-Past history of getting ditched

Worldly things matter when you are having fun with someone's feelings. Few pennies greed can make you feel so foolish that you forget the value of a person and cheat him or her without contemplating the emotional deterioration that will transpire after your wickedness.

• Sometimes you are hurt in a relationship but you are unaware of the path you are deciding on while retrieving your pain. Hurting others can't be assuaging and for once you will admit this but things would be so messed up that you would be incapable of seeing the apparent view. Who was loyal to you either your past or the present person whom you are cheating just for sake of vengeance.

Revenge ;

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Psychological disorder ;

• Few peeps cheat someone just to diminish the psychological pressure. Either they are born with these inadequate ethics or they earn these from their environment. They can't value the emotions of people.

Greed;

• As I have pointed out, money in the first case now arrives to the fact of sexual covetousness. Just for the sake of self satisfaction one can go for cheating. Moral values are broken so severely that suicidal cases do transpire. Survival becomes problematic for both.

Ego;

• Rich societies often use this way of cheating to demonstrate their inferiority. They are egoistic to smash the sentiments of other no matter if they ditch others on the name of love or success.

Proving loyalty to others;

• Some individual are being asked to sell their ethics through performing cheating and they do so just to showcase their own loyalty. But in deep they are not royal to themselves. They don't have worth and affection no matter to which extension they go.

My experience ;

I was being cheated and I confess in both cases it was my innocence who made me quarry. Once my contact number was leaked and it was the time when I didn't have a personal phone. Someone grabbed my sleep away by calling at dinner time. I trembled all the time as I kept myself away from guys stuff. My brother addressed the issue and took legal action after doing mine analysis. As I was studious, a girl from my class used this trick to give me stress during exam days. Now who cheated on me, hehe my best friend whom I trusted a lot no matter how many times I was being appealed to remain away from her. I gained the nasty effects of this cheating as I quit being sure of people. From that day I took an aim that I will never ever will share the contact or information of someone else without permission.

The recent experience I brought in happened, unfortunately, I haven't told the tangible person that I was being cheated by that person. I was honest in that relationship. I pushed to the limit and am still on the way to conserve the respect element .As I value the enemies in a sense they deliver me lessons. I don't want to disclose the insights but yes I heard the sound of broken heart. I felt the pain of this cheating and I lost trust in everything related to love.

• Does cheating benefit you I suppose not all, the individual who follows the devil nerves quickly falls deep into the crater of difficulties. They acquire nothing except attaining popularity as "cheater". I consider this as slang.

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Conclusive thoughts ;

• People lose confidence in you. They would never ever believe in the existence of sincerity in humanity. You will not be in their good books. Either you duped them in the name of any relationship they will doubt the each worldly relationship.
• That person can't remain away from cheating for once in life. Deceiver can't protect himself or herself from the fate where the victim's prayers would chase him or her. All the worldly superfluity looks worthless when it's time to acquire the reward of your cheating.
• Your spirit criticizes you all the time. Cheaters can make everyone fool but their own soul will keep haunting them. They will be having hysteria in all the situation "what they have sow have to reap for sure"
• I consider all immoral actions as cheating either if someone is doing bribery, cheating in exams, deceiving in a relationship, attaining success by hook or crook these are all branches of the identical cheating. So in my words cheating is unfaithfulness. And to all extent it's immoral and inappropriate, it can neither be justified as being called satisfaction or competition.

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