RE: THE INDISPENSABLE ROLE OF LOVE

If I’m not, then that is on me

Yeah, we are responsible for we don't do

We are helpmates to our husbands and for me, that means we should have something tangible doing just in case something happens.

While I agree with you on the point that women should be doing something for themselves and not just dependent on men, I think women have extra responsibilities to bear like bearing and rearing a child because of which their professional lives are affected, and so men are supposed to take care of the financial responsibilities.

Depending on the kind of partner you have, never use your money until you know that your husband really needs help.

Makes sense,but when we are into the relationship we just get manipulated at times.

About a legal document like prenup I don't think it is something to ensure a happy married life. Instead, it's a method to ensure a divorce with lesser disputes.

Wishing you good luck about your married life, sweetie