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RE: THE INDISPENSABLE ROLE OF LOVE
But once you are married, never forget it is for better and for worst, it shouldn’t be one sided
Yeah, marraige is a team work. Marraige means to stand with each other in both the good situations and adverse. However, what if you are putting your 100 percent but the other side doesn't. None of us can make anyone else to adopt the perspectives we keep. I don't see anything wrong in the preparedness in the form of a legal agreement.
Lemme tell you something. I am married and I had a time where I was desperate about the relationship. Had I not have faith on God, I might have gone astray. Yes, the faith helps. I agree.
Nonetheless, I have witnessed cases where the women have been seriously deprived and been left out empty handedly. Despite all their efforts to keep up with the relation they got nothing but misery. A legal agreement might come to their security bit that was never planned.
My faith teaches me to be practical, not just being paasively wait for the things to happen
Wishing you a good day ahead, sister
My faith also teaches me to be practical too. If I’m not, then that is on me.
Well, from what I say here, I believe one thing that can help us as women is to always have something doing. Never depend on the man for everything even though that is his job. We are helpmates to our husbands and for me, that means we should have something tangible doing just in case something happens.
Going into marriage as a woman without having any means of livelihood might be a problem. Depending on the kind of partner you have, never use your money until you know that your husband really needs help.
My faith teaches me that the man should love his wife as he is the head of the woman and the woman should be submissive to her husband but when she is not or the man doesn’t love her, then that is a problem.
I believe that we all know what the right thing is, we just fail to do it or ignore it for too long that it just doesn’t matter anymore. I don’t know what my marriage life is going to be like but I know that I will have a lot of battles to fight. If having a legal agreement is something that one sees as a way to protect themselves, then they should do it but I’m very sure that won’t solve the problems they think it will solve.
Have a beautiful day too, Amber. ❤️
And I wish you a Happy new month. 🥰
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