WHEN GHOSTING IS NECESSARY

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Hi friends. This topic came at the right time because I am currently going through a situation that concerns the topic and it will be good for me to share. Am not sharing it because I am right, but also because I need someone to tell me if what I have done is correct. Or maybe there is a better way to handle it.

Week 184: episode 1 says: Ghosting. Have you ever had to ghost someone?

Before now I find it very difficult to ghost someone because I believe that whatsoever that is it, I can settle it with whosoever that is concerned. But recently I discovered that for some people, it is when you ghost them that they begin to ask some questions maybe to people close or a relative. Some don't get the message until you have ghosted them a long time. When they finally get the chance to speak with you, they will value the friendship or relationship you had with them.

I believe strongly that one of the reasons for ghosting is when someone don't value you, feel that you are not that important, maybe not even see you as a serious friend. Hmmm! To people like that I suggest serious ghosting to teach them a little lesson.

MY EXPLANATION THAT LEAD TO GHOSTING

Last month my family organized a little party at home to celebrate our 25th wedding anniversary. We planned it in a big way, so to make the occasion worth it, we had our spiritual children do the work of committee of friends for us. They helped us planned everything and also made their contributions towards the occasion. All glory to God for their contributions because it really went very far to help us get what is needed plus other contributions from others aside the committee of friends.

The main day arrived and we had alot of people from other parts of the state to grace the occasion. Before the occasion ends, I had these two daughters of mine who took their time in cooking and serving others. I made sure that when they were going I have them enough food to take home and give to their children. Infact I gave them more than enough because of how they have laboured for the occasion. In the evening I asked some of the committee members available at that time to wait because I had something packaged for them. They have all eaten, but I felt like given them something to take home. I had prepared chicken meat for them and a bottle of malt each was given. Two of those daughters of mine that I had given enough food earlier to take home were among the committee of friends that I gave that package in the evening.

Early on Monday morning I saw one of them knocking at my door. I opened the door and she entered. I was surprised when she brought out the meat that I gave her the previous night and told me that I gave her a bad meat and that she won't take. I was still standing speechless and she gave the meat to my son to throw it away. Before I could say anything she left in anger. I was very surprised because I believe that even if she did not get anything that night I had given her enough to take home, then why this action. I called her husband immediately and told him what she did. He laughed and said that this is exactly what he has been telling me about his wife's behavior and I never believed him. He pleaded that I should not do anything, I should allow him handle it at home.

After two days I went to the market and someone called me that this same lady brought a complain that this is what I did to her. It did not stop there. She actually snapped that meat and took it to the market and was reported to anyone that cares what I have done to her. I wanted to go meet her at home, but I was asked to allow her because she is the kind of person that don't understand things from other people's perspective, it must be what she said that will work.

I GHOSTED
This is my reason for ghosting. I believe that this is how I will bring her to ask me why and then I will sit down to tell her what she did.