MY TAKE ON REINCARNATION

There are things that seems impossible, people hardly believe in it. But that won't also stop it from been what it is. I know of a lot of people who don't believe in reincarnation, I also know of some who so much believe on it like their whole lives depends on it. Maybe if there is anyone who needs to believe the word reincarnation it should be me. But things don't work that way. I use to believe in it so much when I was smaller, but today I have so grown that I decide on what to believe and what not to believe.

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My people can not give birth to a child and not go to ask who came back. Is as serious as that. Even up till today. When a child is born it is believed that someone came back for a mission and they all want to know why that person came back. For me when I was born it was gathered that my grandma is the one that came back. Hmmm! This is very serious I tell you. I was never allowed to eat what I want yo eat when I was a child, simply because my grandma don't eat something I don't need to eat that same thing because I will fall sick. They kept saying this and any time that i just do what I want I will be sick. So, because I don't want to be sick I will always try to avoid anything I was asked not to do.

ANOTHER GOOD EXAMPLE
When my father died, the person that married his daughter was not in good terms with my father. After some years of his death my elder sister became pregnant and she gave birth to her first son after having three kids. They had to go to some native doctor to ask who came back. And sure enough they were told that it was my father that came back and this time he came for vengeance. According to the native doctor, my father came to visit his in-law who never took care of him when he was sick. For me, i don't think that someone eho died and his soul in resting in peace will like to come back to this wicked world. What for? What will I come back to do? I can't see myself doing that.

This little child just develop love for my mother and decided to stay with us from when he was small. Even up until the time that he grew and made money, he seems my mother as his responsibility. He cared for her so much that he sends money for her upkeep even till the day that she passed on to the other life.

MY TAKE
While I want to stand in between. Though I have Longed stopped believing in it because I don't think that ot is real. But I still stand in-between. I am not shooting my heart against it, nor believing completely in it. Is possible that reincarnation in true, I have not seen except the ones that I watch in movies or her through stories.