Forgiveness from a distance

Forgiveness is part of life and I don't think is the right thing to do by saying that I can't forgive. But there are things I will love is to put into consideration when talking about forgiveness.

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Sometimes when you move with people you may not know who they really are unless there is that opportunity to show up who they truly are. For someone who you call your friend, there are things that should not occur between the two of friend.

1. One is backstabbing. When a friend backstabe you and do things that should never ever be done by a friend, that shows you that this person was never a friend. He or she is an enemy in a friend's clothes. At that point one will try to forgive, but the tendency of allowing that person into your life again as a friend is no more there. It is at this point that people think you have not forgiven, whereas you are trying to protect your heart from further problems.

2. Secondly, a friend who truly loves you and care about you should never be a friend to your enemy. Anyone who has such a friend is in great danger because you have the friend of your enemy as your friend. The two of them will actually use you to cook soup. 😂 But that is the truth. So at any point when you discover who this person really is, if you have a good heart you will forgive but never let the door of your heart open again for such person.

If any of these two happen to us, people will begin to say that we have not forgiven or that we refuse to forget what that person did to you. I just want us to know these things before going further and also know that the human heart can easily open for people, at the same time it can also close and never allow such people in again.

What is unforgiveness?
This is a situation whereby someone hurt you and you refuse to let go, also you will keep looking for a way to take your pound of flesh. When you have not forgiven and you see that person, you will feel very bitter and seeks for revenge at all cost. If given the opportunity, you can do anything that will hurt that same person so that the person will know the pain that you went through.

FORGIVENESS

When you are no longer angry at that person because of what he or she did to you. This shows that you have forgiven, and have moved on without any grudge. But the fact that you don't want to let that person in again does not mean you have not forgiven.

The question for week 222 episode 3 says if everyone is worthy of my forgiveness. Of course yes, but not everyone is allowed back into my life after I have forgiven. I can decide to move on without them and that is okay as long as I don't have anything in my mind against them.

HAVE YOU EVER BEEN HURT BY SOMEONE?

I don't think that there is anyone who will say no😂. You can't just say no. I said this because everyone gets hurt at one point or the other because we are all human. But how we choose to deal with the issue is what matters.