I Don't Understand How We Humans Think.

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I don't know why human don't values each other

I Have been living with my aunt now for almost three years now. We usually have misunderstandings but always end up settling the issue, But this time around ,it was a different scenario.

One faithful day my dad had called my aunt and asked that I have to come over to ibadan on Sunday. We were going to have a family gathering and there was someone that wanted to meet me since I was the first born of the family. Her response to the call was "she can't come on Sunday because I will be having visitors so that she can help out." My dad told her that, it is very important for me to come to ibadan because the person that wants to meet me was not living in Nigeria πŸ‡³πŸ‡¬ that he came to do something here in nigeria.

My Aunt said okay that I will come, the call ended. The day my dad called her was on Thursday so later on she talked about me travelling to ibadan to her customer that I will leave only her in the shop to handle the sales by herself because I used to help her stay in her shops.

We both left the shops together on Saturday night and headed to her mother's house because that's where I stay with her son and her other sister, she always comes over to visit us every day.

So when I got home I said hello to everyone, ate and did some other things.
I was hearing her telling her mom and her sister about my travelling the following day and also telling them she is sleeping over tonight. After I overheard this conversation, I didn't take it as a serious thing and so I went to my room to prepare for the journey and to have a good sleep.

On Sunday morning I was busy cleaning the house to make sure everything is neat before I travel. My aunt just came out from her room calling my name "omotife" and I answered her. When I got to her room ,she was sitting down. She asked me if I had taken my bath and I said Noo ma, I am still busy with work, she then said I should finish what I am doing on time so that I can leave early and I said okay ma. I noticed that she was angry.

Hours later I was ready to leave, she was sitting in the living room with her mom and sister waiting for me to come out of the room and I did.My aunt was now telling me that I must return back the following day or else she will send me back to where i'm coming from, she said many other things that really pissed me off, all my answers to all what she is saying was okay ma. And I wish everyone bye-bye

I reached my parents' place in ibadan in the evening time. Everyone was happy to see me, especially my mom and my siblings. I was also happy as well.

I called my aunt to inform her that I was there already and she said okay too. My dad told me that we can not go to that place again today because it is already late that we are going tomorrow and I told my dad that she told me to return back the following day or else she will send me back. My dad did not believe it.

The following day we all went to Daddy place, he was very happy to see me telling me it has been a long time. I was so happy that day and enjoyed myself throughout the day.

The following day I fell sick and I was given injections and drugs. She did not even bother to call me or check on me either so I was in my parents place for two weeks. I told my mom and dad that I have to return back to my aunt's place now that I am strong enough.

I reached her place the following day, she didn't even allow me to enter telling to pack my things and returned to my parents house. I think it was a joke but it was not a joke at all, I also told her that I am not feeling fine that's why I came back late. She said that's none of her business. I even tried to beg her but it wasn't valid. I went inside to pack up my few things and returned back to my dad's place. My dad was very disappointed in her, and he called her that day. They talked but my dad dropped them with anger. After the call he told me that I am not going back to her place again and I was very happy that day.

I was happy because she wasn't trying to understand that I was with my parents and that they had more rights over me than her, and she did respect their request, which hurt my mum more. And that was the reason why I had to stop living with her.

Thanks for stopping by.

Omotife❀️❀️

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Thanks so much
I will definitely meet my targets

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Wow, three badges in a row, that's awesome @omotife! πŸŽ‰πŸŽ‰πŸŽ‰

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Sorry about the whole thing, such is life

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Thank you
I appreciate

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Well that's how some people are, they don't value relationships.
I am sorry you went through that.

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It okay dear
It my past now
Smile 😊

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It's time you are over it too.
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!Luv

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