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RE: People forget things so easily
I think this is why it's not a bad idea to consider the worst outcomes on human relationships and mentally/emotionally prepare for when/if it happens. Against the backdrop of living one's life in a complex reality, memories don't really hold much weight. They're like dreams that can be forgotten and never remembered again. I just try to manage expectations and not hold most relationships in a very high regard, we humans are fallible creatures with a chameleon like behaviour.
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You've said it all; nothing but the truth. In reality I like to consider worst outcomes. I do this because humans, we're fallible, sometimes it's not 100% our fault, some people just find it difficult to discipline themselves. Some people easily give in to their excesses, rather than train their minds to choose loyalty over disloyalty. I see this from afar most times, and I already know. I wasn't like this in the past, but series of past painful experiences have made it so.
Sure, experience is the best teacher and when you recognize a pattern of behaviours, it's hard to ignore them when you see the process unfolding in front of you. I think people are definitely less responsible nowadays, make too many excuses just to avoid doing the hard but valuable stuffs to built something that's worthwhile and meaningful.
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