HOW IMPORTANT TO TEACH KIDS AT THEIR YOUNG AGE TO DO HOUSE CHORES- It's a good practice that their young mind they know a basic lifesaver learnings

HI there hivers it's been awhile since i last posted here because my son got sick and i take priority of giving him more extra care.
I'm here today to share how i discipline my daughter in our house. living alone away from my real parents is not easy- as i mentioned in my previous post i came from a broken family and lived with my aunt sometimes in my grandma. So when im growing up i used to do all the chores in my aunt's house because in my mind it is my way of giving back the kindness they give me of staying in their house. In the morning i wipe the leaves, wash the dishes and wash the clothes, because we can't afford laundry shop, so we do it with our bare hands.

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Today I'm posting this to give reminders for the young moms like me to always teach our kids at their young age on how to do a basic house chores- i always let my daughter wash our plates after we eat, because i want her to learn that washing dishes is just basic daily chores especially if your a woman. Basically the man is the one who go out to work to provide for the family so as a wife we need to clean the house and take care of the kids. and this is what i always tell my daughter. at first she don't know how to wash the plates step by step, but now she's doing good at washing as she is doing it day by day.

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after she do the dishes, she then proceed to do the wiping of the leaves/plastic. in my house we don't have a tree but we have many neighbors which the ones who throws their garbage anywhere and i feel sad about them because i think their parents are not teaching them good manners especially about the cleanliness in the surroundings, and i hate dirty surroundings or dirty house. That's why in her young mind i always teach her not to throw anywhere her garbage as its making the surroundings dirty.

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At this part i think this is the hardest part to teach a washing the laundry, because it needs more strength to get the dirty out from the clothes. But i always let her help me when i do the laundry so that she can learn smoothly and easily by practicing. I remember when i was a kid i used to help my mom when she goes for a laundry and the boss pay us like 150php that's like I'm 7 or 8 years young - if your wondering i can help her while i say i am away with her, sometimes when she comes home i cry so hard so that i can go with her wherever she goes but ended up going back to my grandma at the end of the day because she will left again.

I hope all young parents out there to always guide our kids in the right way. because if we not teach them at their young age, they will end up growing up not knowing anything and that can lead them to the bad situation-for example they got married ,what if she don't know how to clean and cook ? what will happen? the husband will leave and find another girl who knows how to do the house chores. Please don't get me wrong it's just my opinion.

thank you for passing by and have a great day..

ps; all pictures are mine and are edited in canva

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Wow, your daughter sure is learning the household chores, that will help her to be independent. Cheers.

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thank you so much

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The best way to learn is to practice. Sooner or later they have to do the housework, so I think your strategy is fantastic. I would just make an aside, boys also need to learn these tasks because you never know if in the future they will have to manage on their own. Being as autonomous as possible is vital at any age and for both genders. Good job!

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i totally agree with you.. thank you for the appreciation

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Im doing it to my daughter. I always told her its not for me. Its for you to learn in life. Teaching them at their young age helps them to be independent and responsible.

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That's a great way to raise a kid. If they know how to do chores, they will definitely grow up to be responsible and even if you leave them, they will know what to do. Nicely done!

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It’s true, teaching kids to help at home while they’re young is a life skill, not just a chore. It helps them grow up responsible and grounded.❤️

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