The Gratitude of Helping

We know that there is a great factor when helping other people and the person or people that you've shown help will be glad to have you because they help you the best way that you can.

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There are many kinds of help that we can think of like a physical help, social help, emotional help, informational help, etc etc and we usually compliment about giving a physical help to other.

There are people that doesn't give help to anyone and they like to keep them for themselves than to help others that are in need. I know someone who doesn't want to share it to others because they want to keep it and I think that's not good for many reasons but not giving any help means that you are a selfish person.

I experience on not getting any help from others and it's really hard for me because even though that they know that I needed help but they just ignore it like nothing happened. I, too, am selfish before because I don't want to help anyone who is in need but my perspective had changed after realizing that being selfish is not a good thing to do.

So, after that realization, becoming selfish of myself change to helping to other even if I don't get anything in return but a "thank you" is enough to make me flutter and helps others that are in need.

For me, I like helping other people because it satisfies me and receiving appreciation from them can make me happy doing help from them. I am happy that I like to help to the people that are in need.

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Although, there are times that I can't help to these people because I don't have the knowledge of the problems that they have but advices for them is the only thing that I can tell to those that I couldn't help so that they will fell at ease on listening to the advices that I will tell to them.

I know what it feels of not getting help to other and thinking about that makes me worried for that person/people. If I am capable of helping, I am willing to help them (but not in terms related to money because we have the same problem if we talk about money, too).