The Beauty of Growth After a Heartbreak

Most of us have experience a heartbroken at least once in their lifetime but there are people that didn't experience a heartbroken because they believe on their first relationship will be their last relationship until the end.

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I think most people like that believing that in their relationship, it will be their last but mostly, it is a failed relationship which led to a heartbroken.

I can attest that becoming a heartbroken is really sad that you can question yourself on what room can be adjust, my shortcomings, and etc. because of a failed relationship.

I can vaguely remember about my first failed relationship or a heartbroken. It was when I was a college student where I met a girl that I love the most and I think she is the one for me because she is responsible, caring, and a lovable person.

Time passed by, our relationship went smoothly like a sailboat with ups and downs but we didn't expect that one day, it is not what we used to do anymore as we realized that it is a failed relationship with some shortcoming that we do during our relationship.

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I know that this may be weird but thinking about that scenario feels like it is still yesterday and I think it was more than 10 years ago already. Well, it was my first heartbroken at that time and I don't know what to do as that was also my first relationship with the person that I love.

In the end, we did really broke up and I tried to comfort myself and not to mind that relationship because it might destroy my future for my studying because I cannot focus in that situation.

I also tried to ask her about if we can get back together again but she closed her heart as she casually said that to me. Still, getting that courage of trying to get together again took me months of planning it.

Well, we have our own version of heartbroken. This is my experience about my heartbroken and I think it gives me learning from that first relationship that I need to adjust the things that I lack on my next relationship and to make it better.

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For many failed relationships that I had and learnings that I learn for each of the relationship that I experience, I know that there are some rooms for making a better relationship and here I am with my beautiful wife making the most out of it and pouring all the love with her and our daughter.