Realizing Fear Isn’t Permanent

Different people with their different characteristics have their own scary things about failing badly or succeeding and changing. Some might said that they were scared about failing badly while others will succeeding and changing or even both or neither.

They have a couple of choices that they can choose on what they were scared of between failing or succeeding but if you were going to ask me that question..

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Hmm.... I would say that I am scared of failing badly that will disappoint the people that I know on the things that I failed of and thinking that they knew that I fail badly about it.

Then there were many thoughts that will come into my mind after failing badly, well, it's not that I would like to happen to get fail but the people would thought many things about it like this and like that.

It's like they expect them to success every time I would do something just like taking an exam a civil service exam, I have been battling on taking that exam because I would think that what would people think if I fail the exam? It's like many thoughts that will come into my mind after thinking negative things about it.

Until, I realize that it's not them who will get the struggles for me and it's not these people who will help me in things that I would needed help.

From that fear of not taking that exam in the past years in which I think people might get disappointed, I did regret a little bit about it because I don't have the courage on doing it and only thinking about the bad side and not the good side on what If I success on taking the exam, what path awaits for me...

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So yeah, I think taking small steps is one way to get a success and fear is only temporary if you were uncertain about things. While fear of failing can be an experience that you need to try and try until you succeed and do not think or worry about others because that's not themselves that will lift you up but you yourself will lift on your own.