I have a Small Kind of Family
We are in a small family consist with 6 people and eventually, we grow bigger and bigger as we met our partners with our siblings and having our own daughters. Well, not really a small family since my father's side has a big family tree but my mother's side is opposite to my father's side.
There are lots of advantages and disadvantages of having a small family and also with the big family. While my father has a big family tree, they are huge and they need to be well taken care of but in my father's situation at that time is not good and even if it's not good, they survive up until now because they strive as much harder than before.
We are in a family of 6 and I think that it's not that really small but it's not that big and living in this family is like a roller coaster because there are ups and there are downs but we are happy as a family because we can enjoy ourselves from communicating with each other and going together as a whole.
We can have more close relationships with each other compared to a big family because as we all know that in a big family, we need to tend someone who is in need to be taken care of and we might neglected to have more close relationship with the family members. There are also other advantage of having a small family, one of that is also the financial stability. If we have a small family members, we can only spend a small or portion amount of money for it rather than in a big family that we need to be more stable and there's more stress to have a big family.
Despite that, people can choose on what kind of family that they have if they like a small or a big family but you need to have a stable job, stable income, and etc to have a big family because it's not easy to have a big family. S
As we talked with my wife now on what kind of family does she like, she told me to have a small family because she cannot attend to the needs of each of the member if we want a big family. I also agree to what she said because we are not yet financially stable and we are also saving money for the future as we needed it.
Raising a big family is not an issue because having a family is one of the greatest feeling that anyone can feel. I, too, would want to have a big family so that we can have more interactions with other family members, more family bonding as family members grow older and older.
