Crítica, miedo y vergüenza [SPA-ENG]

Todos queremos superarnos. Para lograrlo, tomamos diferentes decisiones en distintos momentos. Algunas las tomamos guiándonos por nuestra intuición, otras tras consultar con otros. Cuando nos esforzamos por mejorar nuestra situación, recibimos críticas de diversas maneras.

En definitiva, lo peor del mundo es el desempleo. Cuando un joven desempleado crea oportunidades laborales y se compromete con su trabajo, lo critican. Un joven desempleado sabe las dificultades que enfrenta para salir adelante. Cuando finalmente encuentra un trabajo que le permite escapar de su difícil situación, es común que la gente lo critique.

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Soy bloguero. Me gano la vida exclusivamente con mi blog. Aunque antes tenía un pequeño trabajo, la oficina cerró definitivamente debido a la crisis económica del país. Ahora sigo blogueando para mejorar mi situación y genero ingresos escribiendo en diferentes sitios.

Pero últimamente la gente me critica. ¿Cómo vivo? ¿De dónde saco dinero? ¿Qué como? ¿Qué ropa uso? La gente tiene muchas dudas al respecto. Piensan que gano dinero ilegalmente o que engaño a la gente.

Nunca he podido convencer a la gente de que algunos se ganan la vida cultivando la tierra y otros trabajando. Quienes tienen talento expresan su creatividad y se ganan la vida blogueando. ¿Acaso es cierto que todos debemos ganarnos la vida cultivando la tierra o trabajando? Hay mucha diversidad de personas en el mundo y cada una se gana la vida de forma diferente; es natural. Sin embargo, si abusamos de ello, puede tener un efecto muy negativo en nuestras vidas.

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Un joven desempleado ya ha creado una oportunidad laboral. Pero cuando la gente a su alrededor critica sus actividades, se siente realmente mal. Muchas personas tienen la capacidad de protestar y condenar esas críticas con firmeza. ¡Incluso pueden decírtelo a la cara, aunque no te des cuenta!

Pero también hay personas honestas y educadas que no saben cómo herir a los demás. Cuando empiezan un trabajo e intentan mejorar su posición, reciben críticas. Para sobrevivir a las críticas, abandonan sus aficiones y se frustran. Después, les resulta imposible tomar decisiones acertadas. Siempre les invade el miedo a que los vuelvan a criticar.

Pero creo que debemos educar a quienes critican. Si no actuamos contra ellos, seguirán criticando. Hay que hacerles entender que ya han dicho suficiente, que paren aquí. Que vivan su vida como quieran y que me dejen comprender mis aciertos y mis errores.

En resumen, cuando tomamos una buena decisión, la gente quiere reafirmarla. Si nos sentimos impotentes y no aceptamos su decisión, perdemos la continuidad natural de nuestras vidas. En consecuencia, nuestros sueños de riqueza y la historia de éxito se desmoronan.

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Hace unos años, cuando estaba en séptimo grado, leí un poema. Básicamente, quiero leerles algunos versos de ese poema.

No puedo hacer nada, siempre tengo miedo, siempre me avergüenzo.

Básicamente, este verso significa que no puedo hacer nada. Cuando decido hacer algo, siento mucho miedo. Miedo aquí se refiere al miedo a la crítica de los demás. Y cuando la gente está dispuesta a criticar, mucha vergüenza se instala en la mente de una persona decente. Como resultado, una persona no puede hacer nada solo por miedo a la crítica.

Además, tenemos algunos familiares que siempre nos critican. Creo que no tienen nada mejor que hacer que criticar a los demás.

Si queremos mejorar nuestra situación, debemos eliminar toda crítica. No debemos sentir vergüenza, miedo ni dudar de quién dice qué. En cambio, debemos enseñarles a esas personas con el éxito de nuestro trabajo.

Así que intentemos aplicar esto en nuestras propias vidas. Intentemos evitar las críticas y no prestar atención a lo que digan los demás. Con nuestros objetivos claros, seguiremos adelante y alcanzaremos el éxito en la vida. Esa debe ser nuestra determinación.

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We all want to improve ourselves. To improve ourselves, we take different types of decisions at different times. Some decisions we act in accordance with our mind and some decisions we take in consultation with others. When we work to improve our position, people criticize us in various ways.

Basically, the worst thing in this world is unemployment. When an unemployed youth creates employment opportunities and he gets attached to his work, people criticize him. An unemployed youth knows how much trouble he has to face to manage his own life. When he has found a job to get rid of his cursed life, it is the job of ordinary people to criticize.

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I am a blogger myself. I make my living only by running blogging activities. Although I used to have a small job, the office is now completely closed due to the economic crisis in the country. Now I am continuing blogging activities to improve my position and I am creating income opportunities by writing in different places.

But now people have started criticizing me. How do I live my life, where do I earn money from? What kind of food do I eat every day and what kind of clothes do I wear? People have many doubts about these issues. They think that I am earning money illegally or that I am cheating people.

I can never convince the people around me, some will earn a living by farming and some will work. Those who have good talent will express their creativity and they will earn a living by blogging. Can it be a definite thing that everyone will have to earn a living only by farming or working? There are different types of people in the world and different types of people will earn a living in different ways, it is natural. However, if we overdo it, it can have a very bad effect on our lives.

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An unemployed youth has already created an employment opportunity. But when people around him criticize his activities, it really feels bad. Many people have brains who can strongly protest and condemn that criticism. They can even say it to your face, even if you don't know about it!

But there are honest and polite people among us who cannot talk to people in a hurtful way. When they start a job and try to improve their position, people criticize them. To survive from people's criticism, that person gives up their hobby and gets frustrated. Later, he can never take any right decision. There is always fear in the mind and people may criticize him again.

But I think we need to teach the people behind this criticism. If we don't take action against those people, they will continue to criticize. They should be made to understand, you have said enough, stop here now. You lead your life as you wish and let me understand my good and bad.

Basically, when we take a good decision, people want to re-affirm the decision on that decision. If we are helpless and do not accept their decision, then we lose the natural continuity of our lives. As a result, our dreams of becoming rich and the story of success in life all fall apart.

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A few years ago, when I was in class seven, I read a poem. Basically, I want to read you a few lines from that poem.

I can't do any work, I'm always afraid, always ashamed.

Basically, this line means that I can't do any work. When I decide to do any work, I feel a lot of fear. Fear here means the fear of people's criticism. And when people are ready to criticize, a lot of shame works in the mind of a decent person. As a result, a person cannot do any work only because of the fear of criticism.

Moreover, we have some relatives among us who always criticize us. I think they have no other work to do, they always criticize people.

If we want to improve our position, then we must remove all criticism. We should not have any shame, fear or doubt about who is saying what. Rather, we should teach those people enough through the success of our work.

So let's try to implement our own lives. Let us try to avoid criticism from people and not pay attention to what anyone says. With our specific goals in mind, we will move forward and achieve success in life. This should be our resolve.

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I see you've been here blogging for a while. I'm surprised that you only blog and don't comment much, not even to respond to comments on your own posts. I highly recommend doing so, it will help you to connect with others and bring yourself to their attention more. I have also been here since 2017 and only recently started to see your work.

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Thank you very much for your suggestion. I definitely think your suggestion is very important. I will increase my engagement from now on. I will comment on other people's posts and reply to those who comment on my posts.

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