No está bien vivir con una falsa autoestima./It is not right to live with fake self-esteem.[ESP-ENG]

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A todos nos encantan las cosas bellas y buenas, y por eso las perseguimos constantemente. Deseamos tanto obtener lo bello que no nos damos cuenta de que para conseguirlo, tenemos que sacrificar mucho. Queremos tenerlo todo sin renunciar a nada. En nuestra sociedad, siempre estamos ocupados intentando mostrar nuestra mejor versión. A pesar de que todos sabemos lo bueno y lo malo en nosotros, siempre intentamos ocultar nuestros defectos y mostrar lo mejor. Ocultamos nuestras malas cualidades y siempre intentamos mostrar nuestras buenas. Siempre intentamos eliminar o disimular los fracasos y las cosas malas de nuestra vida y mostrar solo lo bueno. Es decir, creemos en mostrar lo bueno, sea realmente bueno o malo; siempre nos gusta presentar todo de forma impecable.

De hecho, en nuestra sociedad, lo malo no tiene valor, así que siempre intentamos ocultar los aspectos negativos de todo y mostrar los positivos. Si las relaciones familiares son malas, las ocultamos y tratamos de mostrar lo bueno, como si la relación con todos fuera hermosa y llena de amor. Incluso si albergamos muchos pecados, nos expresamos como si tuviéramos una mente pura, libre de comentarios y pensamientos negativos. De hecho, siempre nos esforzamos por mostrar nuestra bondad y la de nuestra familia ante los demás. La forma en que la gente ignora los defectos y falta el respeto hacia los demás hace que nadie quiera que sus defectos salgan a la luz. En realidad, nadie acepta que la sociedad se construye aceptando tanto el bien como el mal.

En la vida y en toda existencia, el bien y el mal se mezclan, así como debemos aceptar el bien, también debemos aceptar el mal. No podemos vivir solo con lo bueno, reprimiendo el mal. Si solo queremos vivir con lo bueno, todo a nuestro alrededor se convertirá en una mera apariencia; es decir, todo estará lleno de falsedades, e incluso si la realidad es mala, todo se verá bien desde fuera. Por ejemplo, en esta sociedad, mucha gente se cree más inteligente y sabia, aunque no todos lo sean. Aun así, se creen superiores y se presentan como tales. Una persona con malas intenciones intenta aparentar ser de buen corazón. Quien, en una relación, no la lleva bien, intenta mostrarse feliz. Es decir, finge ser feliz, pero no lo es.

En nuestra sociedad hay muchas personas infelices que viven con dificultades y sufrimiento constantes, pero que intentan convencer al mundo de que son felices y están en paz. Esta actitud de aparentar felicidad también es un error. Porque en algún momento nos cansaremos de fingir ser buenos, y la falsa felicidad, paz y bienestar que nos rodea terminarán por asfixiarnos. Por lo tanto, debemos esforzarnos constantemente por ser verdaderamente buenos. Debemos identificar claramente lo que no nos gusta, las relaciones que no son buenas, la vida que llevamos y tratar de ser verdaderamente buenos, saliendo de ahí. Solo si dejamos de fingir ser buenos y somos verdaderamente buenos, podremos vivir una vida plena y disfrutar de la verdadera felicidad. Y así, nuestra sociedad también se liberará de la hipocresía y se convertirá en una sociedad verdaderamente feliz, formada por personas felices. Espero que te haya gustado la publicación de hoy. Si te gustó, no olvides hacérmelo saber en los comentarios.

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We all love beautiful and good things very much, and that is why everyone keeps chasing after beautiful and good things. We want to get every beautiful thing so much that we do not realize that to get that beautiful thing, we have to sacrifice or give up a lot. We want to get a lot of good things without sacrificing anything. We are always busy in our society to show ourselves beautiful. Despite the fact that we all know what is bad and what is good in us, we always go ahead to cover up every bad thing in us and show it well. We always cover up all the bad qualities in us and always try to reveal the good qualities to everyone. We always try to remove or cover up the failures and bad things in our life and show only the good things to everyone. That is, it is understood that we always believe in showing the good, whether the thing is really good or bad, we always like to present everything well.

In fact, in our society, bad things have no value, so we always try to hide the bad sides of everything and show the good sides. If the relationship in our family is bad, we also hide it in such a way and try to show the good as if the relationship with everyone in our family is very beautiful and full of love. Even if there are thousands of sins in our mind, we still express ourselves in such a way that we have a great mind in which purity always resides and no negative comments or thoughts come to us. In fact, we are always busy showing ourselves and our family good to everyone in this society. The way people in our society ignore the bad sides and disrespect other people, that is why no one wants their bad sides to ever come in front of anyone. In fact, no one in society can still accept that society is built by taking good and bad and every thing and person in society is built.

In our life and in every existence in this world, good and bad are mixed, so just as we have to accept the good, we have to accept the bad too. We can never live with only the good by keeping the bad. And if we only want to live with good, then everything around us will become "good to show" that is, everything around us will be full of fakes and even if it is bad inside, everything will look good from the outside. For example, every person in this society thinks that he is much smarter and wiser, although not every person is wise, they still think that they are much wiser and present themselves that way. A person with a bad mind also tries to show himself to be a much better-hearted person. A person who is involved in a relationship with another person and is very bad in being involved in a relationship, still tries to show that he is very happy in that relationship. That is, there is a good to show in this which does not exist or is not true.

There are many people in our society who are very unhappy in their lives and are living their lives with difficulty and suffering at every step of their lives, yet that person is constantly trying to convince the outside world that he is much happier and more peaceful in his life. This showing good in life and showing happiness is also a wrong step of ours. Because we will get tired of this pretending to be good at some point and the fake happiness, peace and well-being around us will eventually become suffocating for us. Therefore, we should constantly try to be truly good. We should clearly highlight the things we don't like, the relationships that are not good, the life we ​​are living in and try to be truly good by coming out of there. Only if we can come out of pretending to be good and be truly good, will we be able to live a beautiful life and enjoy the real happiness of life. And with that, our society will also become free from the society of pretending to be good and become a truly happy society of happy people. I hope you liked today's post. And if you like it, don't forget to let me know by commenting.

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