Men are scum. LOH #288.
I just came out from one very serious heartbreak that landed me in the hospital and I was going in and out of the hospital for sometime. I am a bit better now though no more sickness, no more crying, no more moping and gasping for breathe. When I say "men are scum" I mean when you go online people do come out to say this man did this to me, that man did this to me, he broke my heart, he did this he did that and then the generalizes that all men are scum because one man did something today.
I almost fell into that category because I give my all in this relationship but it met a dead end and we just had to go out separate ways. I almost started thinking in that direction but thank God for the friends I have around me. If you go online on social media you hear a lot of people talk bad about men and then people kind of agree to what they are saying because this particular guy broke my heart it is generalized that everybody that bears that particular name are hearts breakers. I could mention a few names there are termed "the breakers" number one Kelvin, two Emmanuel, three, Femi etc.
And I think this has done a lot of harm than good because even those who haven't even gone into relationship or met the person personally would think every man walking on the street or everybody bearing the name Femi is a walking red flag and that's not true and greatly misleading. I could carry my phone and then set my tripod to make a video and say everybody that that bears this particular name is bad because he broke my heart. Meanwhile, deep down I know it's a lie because this is me generalizing it because what one man did. It could be both genders.
A lot of things are factors to these things, the so called ex/ scum could not be the bad person. I'm not trying to defend them though because......
men are wicked. They would stain your white.
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Emphasis on they will satin your white .
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My dear.
I'm glad you are doing fine now. Sending you strength and love.
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Just like when people generalize state, like ibadan tagged as liers and irresponsible men, ondo tagged as very stubborn and act according to only their words and lots more, I used to tell people that it's not by state by by personal person, there are kind as well as wicked souls in every state.
We should tame everyone the same bcos of what a certain person do, I know it's usually hard to trust again a broken heart but it's good to always tell oneself that there are still good people out there and I'm going to meet mine .
Glad you re doing fine now,
Real G will come forward,he wasn't yours .
Simple and short. Unfortunately, the social media tends to carry the misleading stories farther than the beneficial stories.
Thank you dear, yes he wasn't mine.🤗
I am happy that you have friends around you that cared and came to your rescue. Some will slip into depression and get into harm's way because they do not have such friends in times like that. Take care and keep thriving.
Yeah, my friends really helped.
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You're welcome. I am happy to hear that.
Do have a pleasant weekend.
I'm sorry you had to go through a breakup. Friends are a great support. I hope everything goes well in the process of getting over it. Have a nice night,
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When you love someone , do not give it all. Just give some and leave for yourself. Sending you hugs from the Philippines.
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Not all men, but enough men. But also enough people.
I'm glad you've recovered. While it wasn't over a romantic realtionship I've had some pretty terrible lows and I know getting out of them is hard.
Sending love from here ❤️😘.
You'll be fine.
Better to find out that he is a scum before being married than after being married to one. Don't give up on what you want out of the relationship and should not be sacrificed for his. At least you are wiser for it @onyinye-chi
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This comment has been what a friend told me and it has really helped me.
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There are few things as terrible as a heartbreak, and just like @artofkylin mentioned, it's not all men but enough men. The narrative would not have flown anywhere if there weren't enough of them causing so much hurt to women. You can also liken this to some areas where women are charged to faults too.
However, it's important that you have realized that transferring resentment to the next person is the least wise thing to do, in a world that still has kind humans. In the middle of it all, self preservation should be what you've learned the most. Sending you all the hugs and love in this season.❤️