Safe Spaces And Self Worth, The Choice Is Yours.

I feel like it's until you know what you want before you know your worth and I would tell you why I said so as we move forward, well this thought came to my mind after something happened to me and I thought to share it with you all.

Being in an environment that healthy and safe is one thing I ever look at because I come from a home that gave me a healthy and safe environment so growing up and going out I also crave for that but looking at our generation now it's almost impossible getting that so what I mostly do is that I search for that in people that are close to me, that's to say before you I bring down my walls around you or before I let my guards down I would have settled down with my guts which practically is my conscious, I would have brought it up in prayer, I would have also watched and observed the person, my principles and that person own too would align...

So my dearest sisters if you are not bringing peace rather chaos I would just step aside quietly, something happened to me and one lady in my department where I find out that she has been talking ill at my back, spoiling my name and wanting the position of authority I occupy but when ever she's around me she would be all lovey, kind, sweet and almost like perfect and that's what we call hypocrisy, well I didn't know she was like that with me until everything started popping out coz normally nothing is hidden under the sun.

I felt betrayed, backstabbed, like a fool, like I have been building on the air because this same person is one that I was getting use to, I was learning to trust, to open up to, to feel comfortable around then boom everything fell to the ground like a broken class that can never be fixed perfectly no matter how it's been patched up together, I had to address it and what I did was to make it known to her by telling her that we can't be friends anymore and by giving her literal space just like the way they say when eating with our enemy we should eat with a long spoon, I told her that I need someone that would laugh with me when am laughing, cry with me when am crying, be a safe space for me to grow, wants the best for me and I can't see that with her so what ever this is can no longer work out.

I had to walk away for my peace because these are the kind of people that would want to kill you because of something and just like I stated earlier on that until you know what you want before you know your worth, never settle for a place where your self worthy, value, peace of mind Is underrated, I rather be alone than to be with people that aren't worth it.

At this junction I bow to take my leave, I love you all😘.

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