Many people push us away when we are sad!

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This is often seen. When we are in a good mood, when we can be happy, many people are by our side. Then everyone inquires, talks, wants to spend time with us. But when we are sad, when we are broken inside, many people around us avoid us as if we are a burden. As if being sad means a problem and everyone wants to stay away from that problem.

If you notice this, you can understand that people only look for companions for good times. No one wants to be around too much during bad times. And when we are sad, it becomes even more obvious. When we are sad, people become a little more sensitive, they want a little more love or care. But then the people around us act as if you are weak, it is difficult to tolerate you.

In fact, when we are sad, many people do not want to understand that if we get a little support, a little love, it might be possible to be well. Rather, most people show more neglect and avoid us at this time. And only then we understand who is really close to us and who was only there for the good times. This is why many people prefer to be alone when they are sad, because then they don't have the strength to convince anyone to be good.

Everyone just sees who is laughing, who is having fun, who is feeling good. No one cares about how someone is feeling inside. Many times, when you talk about being sad, they say the opposite, why are you so negative? But when you are sad, people want to listen to you, they want someone to explain to them.

There is only one simple calculation in this society: when you are happy, there are many people, many inquiries, many things to say. And when you are sad, you have to understand how to handle yourself. So when you are sad, you have to learn to be by your own side more than anyone else. If you always expect love from others, you will be disappointed again and again. The most important thing is to be your own friend in your own bad times.

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