The wound of the word is worse than the wound of the sword

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Many of us don't think about anything while speaking, we say whatever comes to our mouth, we have to remember, words of mouth humiliate people and this word of mouth honors people. For this you have to be careful while speaking.

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There is a proverb in Arabic, which means, the injury of words is more serious than the injury of the hand, because the injury that is inflicted by the hand is erased at some point, but the injury that is inflicted by the word is remembered, which is never erased.

For this reason, we should speak politely, smilingly, sweetly, those who can speak sweetly with a smile have less enemies in the world. Always treat people well.

Rasulullah Sallallahu 'alaihi wasallam said, I am responsible for Paradise for the person who guards two things, and those two things are the tongue and the private parts. That is, the person who guards his tongue and his private parts, Rasulullah SAW will recommend him to go to Paradise.

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When a good word is spoken harshly and angrily in a harsh language, then that good word is also heard badly, and when a harsh word is said well and nicely, then that harsh word is also heard well.

Let me share an incident with you, if you read the incident you will understand the matter better. There was a king in a country, that king dreamed one day that all his teeth fell out and one tooth was clean, the king was very worried after seeing this dream.

A person was called who can interpret the dream, he heard all the words of the king and said, all your family will die and only you will live, hearing this the king got angry and punished that person.

After some time another person was called, he also can interpret dreams, he was told about the dream and the condition of the previous person, this person thought a lot and said, Allah Ta'ala will prolong your life, you will live long in your family, The king liked this very much and gave many rewards to this person.

If we think a little, these two people are but the same but a little difference in the manner of speaking, and because of this difference one was punished, and the other was rewarded.

Hope you all understand the point. Thank you all so much for reading my post today.