When a mistake is no longer a mistake.

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‎In life no body is above mistake, so there is always bound to be mistakes. But as humans we need to learn how to differentiate a real mistakes with from an intentional act. Because some people are quite funny, some will purposely carry out am act and call it a mistake. I tell people instead of doing something to somebody and preparing to say sorry, why not just avoid that act that will lead you to saying sorry. Some people intentionally carry out an act come back to tell you sorry and claiming it was mistake. This alone makes it difficult to forgive.
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‎Again, if it happens the first time, it's a mistake, but it it repeat again the second time, I personally don't see it as a mistake. A friend did something to me ones, I complained and told her I didn't like her actions and she apologized and said it was a mistake. I accepted it, after sometimes she repeated the same action and call it a mistake again, immediately she wanted saying I told her, I have forgiven her already that no need to apologize. Again, she repeated the same thing and when she wanted apologizing I told her not to try that again, because hearing the statement " I am sorry " from her will get me more upset.
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‎So I am not against forgiving anybody or giving them a second chance, but you just need to guard yourself against someone taking your simplicity for stupidity. Because a lot of people easily abuse privileges. The same thing happened in a school were I worked ones. I child came to complain about another child bullying him . We asked what happened, he said that the boy splashed water on his shirt the first time and said sorry, and came back again and repeated the same act abd said sorry and he didn't accept it,so he needed to revenge , and that lead to them fighting. After listening to that complain we knew the other guy was doing what he did intentionally and that it was no longer a mistake.

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