...give a man money and you will see his real characters. (man here is for both genders )

But is that really true ? Well , I will say yes and I will say no.
Money can change some people, especially those that have not really hustle for it, or some that inherited it and lack financial management skills.
I keep telling this story , that I know of a young man, who was berived of his father and the father was very wealthy and the man happened to be the first son of his dad, and the father has will a lot of properties and funds to him. So after the dad's burial he went to claim it. He claimed a lot of money and immediately his life and pattern of living changed. He was now carrying ladies, sleeping in different hotels and was spending the money recklessly. Someone that use to be sociable, play football with people was no longer approachable by friends. He now had another set of friends.
In less than 3 years the money finished and he went back to squares 1. In this case money changed him negatively.
But in the other hand, those who have hustled for money, will know how to spend it when it comes in bulk, it enhance the way the do things, help others and make the money count. No matter how much they have , it will not change the way the behave or relate with others. They will still be who they were and relate well with others.
So the question could be answered in two ways depending on who is involve, the character and the personality of the person. Some of these people are naturally rude and wicked, just that they are hiding under the shadow of lack of money. when once money is brought in to the game everything might change.

Yes you are correct, it can be a two way thing. Money can empower some individuals to tilt towards the right direction while for others, it will push them out of alignment to begin to do the wrong things. That is where the self control is needed. If one is able to have control towards drifting to a negative attitude then,the person has won and now a champion 🏆
!INDEED
Money brings out people's real character..