Facing Rejection

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‎How do you face rejection, even from the people you never expected it from ?
‎I like saying that the first step to solve your problem is accepting and acknowledging that you have a problem. Anything outside that you might never be able to solve the problem.
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‎Now as human , you must have it in mind that there will surely be rejection and disappointment. Having this in mind is like developing a thick skin towards it so that when it happens, you will feel little or no pains.
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‎I know rejection is painful, it's a normal thing for it to be painful because we are humans. So how I handle rejection , is by accepting within myself first that anybody can reject or disappoint me. And when it happens I take it in good faith, although it's always painful, but I just tell myself that what was meant to be must and what was not meant the be will not be. Again, I believe that everything we pass through in life serves as an experience and a lesson, so I learn form it and move.
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‎A times some rejection gives you the opportunity to reflect and adjust, rejection doesn't mean you are not good enough, it might mean that you are not just aligning to the person who rejected you and forcing yourself to be accepted in a place that you are not welcome will lead to more problem and more hurt. Rejection is painful, but it should not the end your story, it should not make you sad or feel bad.
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‎Stay hopeful, and don't become bitter sometimes rejection simply redirects you toward something different which you might even appreciate more than the previous thing. But always ensure you learn and let the experience make you wiser not rude or harder.
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‎In summary, Learn from rejection, grow from it, and keep moving forward, because you will get stronger subsequently.
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