When Your Assumptions Fails.

I have been a victim of first impression alot of times and when ever i sit to calculate why and why this things happen, most atimes I can control some of the reasons why those negative first impression are made but other times I really can't help the situation, I feel like everyone on earth has been faced with this wrong impression fact because humans would always be humans.

So for sure first impression can be misleading, in 80/100 the first guessing is always wrong because you might encounter me in a day that I did not wake up from the right side of the bed or some one pissed me off or even that serious mood faces, and that normal you would just conclude that this person is not friendly or this person is rude or perhaps this person does not like people on his or her space, meanwhile the person is totally different from that.

But instances where I am conscious of going into a new environment, one basic thing I will do is giving a good first impression and not just a faked one but one that leaves a good impression on you and makes you remember me easily, you know this kind of aura that someone walks in with that makes you wonder what's more to this person than what meets the eye, yess that is the kind of impression I would leave in any new environment I walk into.

And why I believe that negative first impression sticks longer is because in this world that we are it's mostly the wrong or bad things that people do that are mostly remembered but do any good thing it might not even be known or it won't linger long around, people always loves talking about those bad things because they tend to celebrate your downfall over your wins, so this should be a reminder to us all that we should always strive to see the positive aspect of a person than the negative one, we should not always ask what has she done this time because she always does things wrongly but rather ask what is she doing right this time.

We are humans and we would default so just keep that at the back of your mind. Much love and kisses 😘 from this side, thank you for stopping by.

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