An Untold Story Lies Behind Every Smile You See Out There

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WHY DO PEOPLE HIDE THEIR PAIN BEHIND LAUGHTER

Hello #Scifimultiverse friends, I trust your day is going well.
These days, we see a lot of fake lifestyles, which is also making it difficult for people to empathise with others, even when it is obvious that they are going through difficulties.

Erik Mclean

Recently, I watched a video on Instagram where an individual pretended to be crippled while trying to cross the road. Seeing the individual, the motorists stopped to let the person pass, only for the individual to get up halfway and start running across the road. I was not only pained, but I concluded that the behaviour could hinder those with real disabilities from getting the needed help when such a situation comes up. This may also be a reason why people hide their pain because others might not believe their story, owing to people like this faking disability when they are not challenged at all.

Again, I once went for an assessment; when I was done, I was seriously pressed, but I couldn’t approach anyone at the venue to request the convenience room. I wanted to look decent and well-cultured while I was hiding the pain of being pressed.

The thought of a first impression and what they would say behind my back after using their convenience room made me hold on. In that process, I became uncomfortable with any delay and request. At some point, one of the staff noticed that I wasn’t relaxed and comfortable again. The person approached me and asked if I needed support, but I smiled and waved it off, pretending that my attention was needed at the office. Meanwhile, I was just trying to hide my distress from the world and be myself to avoid gossip.

Saranya7

When I left the venue, I barged into a bank and used one of their conveniences, though I nearly messed up because I had held the discomfort for a long time; hence, my whole system was burning and rumbling with noise. This singular act would have injured my system because I want to avoid what people would say behind my back.

Apparently, I did that because I have heard our janitors discussing how the visitors who used our convenience left the place untidy and smelly after using it. Sometimes, I correct them; other times I ignore them. So, that fear of mockery and shame made me always avoid using the convenience rooms anyhow.

However, these days, I wake up to reality, knowing that no one but myself can stop me from being who I want to become. So I fear less and live a genuine life.

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holding your press would really damage your blader ma'am thou i understand how you really want to avoid the mouth of the word

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You were correct, that is a sad truth 😒.
You know, that is the extent we humans can go to hid ourselves and burdens from others evwn though it is not healthy on it's own.
People will commit suicide just because thwy don't want others to share in their pain.
So, it is a complicated life we are living.
However, I learnt my lessons and have aince adjusted as mentioned in the laat paragraph of my post πŸ’― 😌
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No one likes people talking bad behind them but if we keep focusing on what people will say then we won't be able to do or achieve anything. Just be yourself and your things and let people say what they want. That's how I'm currently living my life. Because my life is my life after all

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Thank you for those kind words. I am working towards that. Thank you for stopping by, I appreciate πŸ™
!ALIVE

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You're welcome ma'am

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Holding urine for long us one of the things that leaves our system damaged, you really tried taking a risk like that.

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You are correct πŸ‘ πŸ‘Œ . That risk doesn’t worth it at all. I am happy that I learned not to listen to what people might say behind me and have sinced moved on living my genuine life.
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As innnnn that was a risky one and I can tell because I've once been in that shoe though mine was because the restroom was locked cos there was no water. My bladder went through hell that day.

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You are correct. I have learned to find a way around it. Though most times when I am not in my crib, i find it difficult to use conveniences out there anyhow. Every day is a learning point.
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Yes ooo cos the problem that using conveniences anyhow will cause somebody sef, mouth won't be enough to explain it

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I'm aware that holding myself from using the convenience for a long time is not healthy, but can I ever stop? I don't feel comfortable using any convenience especially if they don't look clean enough. πŸ˜‚
!BBH

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You can imagine that. lolz, everyone has the level of decency they can tolerate. Most of the time, the sight of other conveniences that are unkept will cause the discomfort to stop. Lolz, thank you for stopping by. I appreciate!BBH ALIVE

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i can relate to this your first story.
The one i saw online was when jarvis helped paid for an apartment worth millions bought foodstuffs and gave 500k cash to one lady and her little baby only to come across her one certain time on the street still begging meanwhile it hasn't been up to a week she gave the lady all this. Jarvis ended up saying she isn't helping anyone again.

truly this People are making life difficult for the real ones struggling.

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You can imagine that act. Now the real ones struggling will not get the needed help. They are just spoilers using their bad attitude to prevent others from accessing the need help.
Thank you for the insighful feedback.
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!STRIDE
!LADY

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For is so bad mehn.
you are welcome anyways

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