Something Worth Changing.

Can man ever be perfect, is there a possibility of being without a flaw and blameless —having nothing to work on or change.

It is said that we all have flaws and it varies in every human. What is human without imperfections, that's one big factor that makes us human—it's naturally to make mistakes, to have a weakness. And, this doesn't come off as an excuse but a responsibility of recognizing and knowing one's flaws. More importantly, working on the flaws so as not to get worse.

I am that human too, one with flaws—one who is conscious of my flaws, dislikes it but also working on it. I don't appreciate my flaw at all so as not to get used to repeating it often, yet, I find myself doing it once a while: very annoying. It is crazy that one can not completely erase this flaw but one can pay attention to it to know why it happens, when it does and how, find out what triggers it and maybe who. This way, we get to reduce the occurrence of this flaw.

It is a great trait to possess the ability to be really nice to people but I have a genuine flaw of always smiling and being extra nice, doesn't sound bad right but it's to those those who doesn't really deserve so much. Especially once who have taken it for granted before but now in proximity so they get it once. I've been giving myself constant warning and that feeling like punching myself in the face each time I go extra nice to someone who doesn't much of it.

"Are you okay? You really think that was cool? Why did you that, Was it worth it, you know you did too much there" these are some of the words that I tell myself when I am being too nice again to someone who doesn't deserve it. I don't go easy on myself.

Another way I reduce how often it happens is by being in full control of my emotions and especially my actions when I'm happy. I try my best to not be overly expressive so as not to say what I will regret later.

Just as everything needs a balance, this personality, being nice, also needs a balance. Just to be nice and not too nice where you're taken for granted or show it to those who do not deserve much. I am looking forward to getting better at this since I am aware of it.

One thing that makes one better is change and paying attention to details. Most times we don't get to see our one flaws, mistakes and weaknesses, rather we hear from others and begin to wonder or even disagree. Paying attention and reminiscing on daily activities at the end fo the day helps to point out the good and the bad in every day, also, where one needs to adjust. This way, I can get even better in other personalities I possess.

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