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RE: Sam's Hangout #73- β€œCHOOSING A PARTNER”

What are the qualities I need in a partner?

Yeah firstly. I need PIETY. My partner should be the pious one and God fearing one. This is because I am also pious to some extent. Like poles should attract each other. Then our kids will have same belief.

Secondly, CHARACTER. Good character. Yoruba say your character is your true beauty. So I want someone with a good character. No one is perfect. But at least to some extent have an adjustable and decent character. I no wan go marry person wey no tie me chain chain for neck drag me to dinning to eat and hold my trouser when misunderstanding Dey..

Lastly BEAUTY. I no say I wan marry mamma water ooo. But at least. Have an attractive look that I will be proud to say that’s my woman. And my kids will also say. Dad, you and mum are so lucky to met each other.

Can i compromise? I can compromise the last one. Maybe πŸ€”. But it no go come from my heart… πŸ˜‚. Just allow me with the three.

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I like the fact that beauty comes last. Some people out beauty first o, forgetting that it fades

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Beauty na water. It fit wash away any time. Not even old age alone. Just any freaking time. Will I have to stop just because it’s no more.

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Beauty takes many forms. Not just physical.

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Hmmmm ok ok . I think I agree with the good character part like seriously

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Yeah. πŸ‘.. no one will want to oppose that.

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Wonderful.
I'm taking notes.

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I know know. Sha don’t allow your book to tear πŸ˜‚

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Lol πŸ˜‚ the chain and dragging part got me laughing.

I think these are important qualities to look out for in a partner.

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It Dey necessary ooo. They talk say some woman Dey wey no go allow their husband enter room unless he bath every night πŸ˜‚

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You want to go for big yansh just like our fathers πŸ˜‚πŸ˜‚

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As how? Where you see me talk about yansh for here πŸ˜‚. Na yansh wan give me peace of mind?

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Yay!!!! πŸ™Œ Queen is here

Tell him o...Figure 8 that brings future hate

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I totally agree with the character because people see who you are, not what you are.

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That’s πŸ’― the reality and fact. Character be like smoke. πŸ’¨ it go smell wherever you Dey.

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Wait oo, sha no go marry emere

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Normally. Na you go extract that beauty you wan see for her body. 😏

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This your qualities no be here ooo, you come join beauty mmmmm but you know say beauty dey fade.

Abey if you the eye adbul-qudus for the group mmmmm make sure you are beautiful ooooo. I rest my case

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πŸ˜‚ πŸ˜‚. Me self no bad na. So why I no go eye beauty. But I don talk am for down say I fit compromise. So no yawa. Be like you too Dey my list

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So, if she isn't attractive but has other qualities, you won't be proud of her? Be playing πŸ˜…
Better teach her to be if she isn't.

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Na me wan teach. How to have fine face? Or na me wan teach her how to walk smart? πŸ˜‚. Make una dey play ooo. Even if she use make up. Na zero for me

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My dear, please tell him again ooo

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When you pious to some extent, so who should pious the rest sir? πŸ˜‚

And na trouser she hold nah not your neck chain πŸ˜›

Compromise the last one go marry aunty ramota, you go talk from whose hand you meet am

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Haha, this list is solid! Piety and character definitely set the foundation, and beauty is just the cherry on top. Can’t blame you for compromising a bit on that last one though!

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Wow I can see you cherish someone who is beautiful, has a good character and also a real child of God. These are great qualities.

In this generation it is difficult to see a lady who is beautiful, well behaved and also churchy. The GenZ movement and social media abracadabra has spoilt a lot of things.

However, it is still not impossible to get such a lady. What do you think?

@abdul-qudus

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Who says it is hard to find such a woman.

I boldly declare myself as one. I am beautiful, pious and embodied with good character.

It is the men that can't measure up πŸ˜‚πŸ˜‚

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You have got some really cool points and I love your sense of reasoning and listing them out

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πŸ˜‚Well l would say the qualities u pick are all good, beauty is important in a woman because when the woman is ugly most times u would feel reluctant to go out with her but nevertheless l think u can still compromise because u can't get all u want in a partner nobody is perfect.

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See you and you grammar.

You are looking for fine babe, you are you fine?

Do you have good character too? 😝

The pious part self, me I no believe you because last week bipolar called you a pagan.πŸ˜‚πŸ˜‚

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