Regrets of the Past: Lessons Learned

Hello people , a wonderful evening to you all , I hope your day isn't as stressful as mine and that you had enough time to really relax and enjoy the day.?.... So Have you ever wished you could turn back the hands of time? Like seriously like you turn it and you were at a spot where there were decisions you would have made better? Well I have, There are moments in my life when I wish I could go back to, those moments do bring bad energy and hurt us….. I wish I had made better choices in my life, Now, I have to live with the consequences.

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Yeah, We all make mistakes. It is seriously how we learn and grow, But sometimes, those mistakes can be painful, I have learned that it is really essential to be careful about who we let into our life .

You see Some person might seem nice at first, but they can turn out to be toxic, like really toxic , They can bring stress, anxiety, and sadness into ones life. I wish I had been more careful about who I trusted and gave part of my life to , cause it actually coming back to hurt me in so many ways.

Just Sometimes I think about what would have happened if I had made different decision and choice. What if I had said no to that person? And What if I had walked away from him then , maybe I would be more happier now

Well we can not change the past now, but we can learn from it. I have learned that it is so essential to trust my instincts and listen to my inner voice, If something feels off, it probably is not good, that I have seriously learnt ..I should have listened to that inner me that said to not follow this person that day. Well it's the past and that is what it will be.

It is not easy to move on from past mistakes this I certainly know. But it's necessary. We can not just stay stuck in the past and expect to move forward. It is not even possible at all.

So I am trying to focus on the present and the future, I am trying to learn from my mistakes and use them to make better decisions presently in my life, It is not always easy, but it is going to be worth it, this I very much know.

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So I have learned many lessons from my past mistakes. And they these for anyone who would care to also pick a point from here

Number 1 is to Trust your instincts: If something feels off, it probably is just off

Number 2 is one should Be careful who you trust: Not everyone has your best interests at heart, this was really learnt

Number 3 is that Don't be afraid to say no: It is okay to set boundaries and say no to people or situations that do not feel right at all.

Finally is to just Learn from your mistakes: Because We all make mistakes. It is how we learn and grow from them that matters.

You see regrets are a part of life,We as humans all have them. But it is how we learn from them and move forward that matters more, I am just trying to focus on the present and the future, rather than to continue dwelling on past mistakes.

I hope this can help others, Remember to trust your instincts, be careful who you trust, and do not be afraid to say no. And most importantly, learn from your mistakes and use them to make better choices in the future as this is very important and it keeps you stronger . What doesn't kill you makes you stronger.